- March 29, 2020 at 9:46 pm #878992JenniGuest
I am beyond livid at my SO right now. He lied to me!!! Feeling heartbroken and betrayed. Long story short, I was at dinner with a friend and he told me he was going to be back home later – around 830. I said OK and then asked him why his boss was “making him work so hard” and he spouted off some BS. 5 minutes later I see a photo of him at a bar. What should I do with him??March 29, 2020 at 10:56 pm #879000BeccaGuest
If my husband did this I’d be hurt too. Was he there with his friends or coworkers? Maybe he needed space? It’s irritating but it’s something that needs to be talked about. Do you suspect he’s cheating? Has he done this before? It could just be an inconsiderate act, or maybe he thought you wouldn’t go with him, or maybe it’s something a relationship counselor my need to help you with.March 29, 2020 at 11:12 pm #879004ktfranParticipant
Nobody should be out with friends or at bars or restaurants right now.March 30, 2020 at 8:59 am #879062
This is so weird for multiple reasons.
First of all, your ip is coming from a place that has been a hotspot, so why the hell would you both be out socializing? I don’t even think restaurants and bars are open where you are.
And second, why would you feel betrayed and heartbroken about something like this? Pissed, ok. Heartbroken? For saying he’d be home later and then going to a bar? Why?March 30, 2020 at 9:48 am #879067FYIGuest
Are you each seriously out socializing? You at a restaurant and him at a bar? For real? If so, you need to take a hard look at yourself.March 30, 2020 at 1:38 pm #879094Cleopatra_30Participant
Is this not Karissa? Who has posted under a different name prior about her husband having an emotional affair with his female co worker?
If so, this isn’t surprising. Also please stay home and isolate. Otherwise you will win a Darwin award.March 30, 2020 at 4:29 pm #879118
It probably is.March 30, 2020 at 4:32 pm #879119ktfranParticipant
I thought that too.March 30, 2020 at 4:35 pm #879120
You’re both going to get Coronavirus and potentially get very ill. Stop acting so stupid, Tina / Karlee / Karissa.March 31, 2020 at 8:18 am #879240golfer.galGuest
If this is Tina, then what you should do with him is what we’ve been telling you over and over for, what, 5 posts now?
1. LEAVE. Lawyer, divorce
2. Accept the situation. He’s going to lie, he’s going to see his mistress, he’s going to do literally whatever he wants to. THERE IS NO POSSIBILITY THIS WILL EVER CHANGE, STOP EXPECTING IT TO
Also, stop going out to bars and dinners. Jesus there is a global pandemic and you are risking your own health, the health of every single person you come into contact with, and every single one of their loved ones. Going out for fun is shitty and selfish right now. Stop it.March 31, 2020 at 11:04 am #879258anonymousseParticipant
Tina, you’re sick. You need help. Because at this point, staying with him seems like a form of masochism.