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    avatarJenni
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    I am beyond livid at my SO right now. He lied to me!!! Feeling heartbroken and betrayed. Long story short, I was at dinner with a friend and he told me he was going to be back home later – around 830. I said OK and then asked him why his boss was “making him work so hard” and he spouted off some BS. 5 minutes later I see a photo of him at a bar. What should I do with him??

    #879000 Reply
    avatarBecca
    Guest

    If my husband did this I’d be hurt too. Was he there with his friends or coworkers? Maybe he needed space? It’s irritating but it’s something that needs to be talked about. Do you suspect he’s cheating? Has he done this before? It could just be an inconsiderate act, or maybe he thought you wouldn’t go with him, or maybe it’s something a relationship counselor my need to help you with.

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    avatarktfran
    Participant

    Nobody should be out with friends or at bars or restaurants right now.

    #879062 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    This is so weird for multiple reasons.

    First of all, your ip is coming from a place that has been a hotspot, so why the hell would you both be out socializing? I don’t even think restaurants and bars are open where you are.

    And second, why would you feel betrayed and heartbroken about something like this? Pissed, ok. Heartbroken? For saying he’d be home later and then going to a bar? Why?

    #879067 Reply
    avatarFYI
    Guest

    Are you each seriously out socializing? You at a restaurant and him at a bar? For real? If so, you need to take a hard look at yourself.

    #879094 Reply
    Cleopatra_30Cleopatra_30
    Participant

    Is this not Karissa? Who has posted under a different name prior about her husband having an emotional affair with his female co worker?

    If so, this isn’t surprising. Also please stay home and isolate. Otherwise you will win a Darwin award.

    #879118 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    It probably is.

    #879119 Reply
    avatarktfran
    Participant

    I thought that too.

    #879120 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    You’re both going to get Coronavirus and potentially get very ill. Stop acting so stupid, Tina / Karlee / Karissa.

    #879240 Reply
    avatargolfer.gal
    Guest

    If this is Tina, then what you should do with him is what we’ve been telling you over and over for, what, 5 posts now?
    1. LEAVE. Lawyer, divorce
    2. Accept the situation. He’s going to lie, he’s going to see his mistress, he’s going to do literally whatever he wants to. THERE IS NO POSSIBILITY THIS WILL EVER CHANGE, STOP EXPECTING IT TO

    Also, stop going out to bars and dinners. Jesus there is a global pandemic and you are risking your own health, the health of every single person you come into contact with, and every single one of their loved ones. Going out for fun is shitty and selfish right now. Stop it.

    #879258 Reply
    avataranonymousse
    Participant

    Tina, you’re sick. You need help. Because at this point, staying with him seems like a form of masochism.

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