An old friend turned boyfriend and I started traveling together each month for the past 6 months. We seemed to want the same things and had respect, trust and pretty awesome friendship on top of falling in love. About 2 months ago he saw a nice house and showed me photos of it and hinted that maybe we should buy it together. Unfortunately the moment we inquired for a visit, an offer had already been made and soon enough it was sold. So that was that.
I live in a house while he lives in an apartment as our current living situation. Both of us owners of the respective places. His mother which I know for many years is going in an out of his apartment and spends a lot of time there. No problem so far. However tonight, he said that he plans to buy a house with his mother by this summer and that he found a couple houses close to where I live so that he will be closer to me. I’m not sure what is going on but I am sitting here now at 3 AM in the morning wondering if and how I should even begin a conversation about him buying a house and live with his mother? He said that I would come stay with him there but, what? Am I losing sleep over this for nothing?
His mother does have a long term boyfriend but she doesn’t live with him full time. I thought that we are building something together, no parents involved. Am I out of line? Should I even bring this up?
We’ve been together as a couple for 6 months and have been friends for a little over 15 years; his sister is also my best friend. I’m not sure how to bring this up to him but it bothers me enough for me to ask for advice from strangers…