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AnonymousOctober 20, 2022 at 11:27 am #1116563
So I’ve been seeing this boy for a while now and I like him a lot. However last year I was in a minor car accident and the woman it was with is friends with his mum and I’ve seen her at his house before. Luckily she did not recognise me but I’m worried about them all finding out. Anyone got any advise I could really do with reassurance, do I just act like I don’t know?peggyOctober 20, 2022 at 1:12 pm #1116566
I don’t understand your question. Why are you concerned with this woman knowing who you are? Did you cause the accident?
First thing to do is ask the boyfriend about this woman. Is she a relative or family friend etc. Then tell him about the accident if he does not already know. That will give you more info. Maybe she did recognize you but just did not mention anything.
Without knowing more, to me it does not sound like big deal to say something to her, like this. ” I think you had a minor car accident last year and I believe it was with me. Odd that we meet here isn’t it?” Or something to that effect. Or just say nothing and it may “come out” over time with little consequence.LisforLeslieOctober 20, 2022 at 1:24 pm #1116568
Did you do a hit and run? If so, then stay away from this guy because you will let your guard down and someone is going to put two and two together and the shit is going to hit the proverbial fan. And if you did hit and run – that’s pretty shitty in general.
If you had an accident and there are ongoing insurance disputes, then there could be resentment if the guy’s mom is immature and petty. No way of knowing until all is revealed.
If you had an accident and the insurance claims are resolved, then I don’t see any reason that this would haunt you. Sure maybe someone says something but at some point, everyone has to move on with their lives. Of course, there is the asterisk of exception if the accident caused this woman long term or permanent physical damage. Then just stay away.AnonymousseOctober 21, 2022 at 6:24 pm #1116578
What are you worried about them finding out?Fishygirl17October 23, 2022 at 12:03 pm #1116580
What makes you so nervous about the accident? Was it your fault or did someone get injured/their car got ruined? Did you leave the accident and not get out of your car? If not then I would just face them. Accidents happen. If something like that didn’t happen, I think this is a sign from the universe that it’s time to face it and make up for what happened. I am sure ever hung will be fine and it will take the weight off your shoulders.