- April 23, 2019 at 9:41 am #841716SpaceyStephParticipant
Why did he go to spain 2 weeks before the wedding? A bachelor party? Work? Running off to sow his wild oats? Even that part is weird.April 24, 2019 at 12:12 pm #841790DeighMember
If I didn’t trust the person I was supposed to marry to be alone in a hotel room with a woman, then I wouldn’t marry them. Is that weird? I’m alone with men all the time for work or because I have male friends. My boyfriend and I live 4 hours apart. He’s alone with women all the time for work or with his female friends. I would wonder why he was up there alone but knowing my bf as I do, it would probably turn out that she was drunk and he helped her upstairs or something. I’d ask before I’d assume the worst. Maybe it’s because of the distance but really if the bf wanted to cheat on me, there are 20-25 days each month he could do it and I’d never know.
What sounds like a sexual assault is different and that wouldn’t concern me. Though if he was saying he felt dizzy when he tried to “get it up,” then yeah, that would be a dealbreaker. But if the OP was saying he felt dizzy when he tried to get up and then the woman tried to have sex with him, that’s assault.