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  • Anonymousse
    March 1, 2023 at 2:24 pm #1118886

    Not a hint, you’re an adult.

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    Jessy
    March 1, 2023 at 3:29 pm #1118892

    Okay okay

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    March 1, 2023 at 3:37 pm #1118893

    Do it and let us know how it goes!

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    Jessy
    March 1, 2023 at 3:45 pm #1118896

    Yes will let you know! Thank you for your support!

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    LisforLeslie
    March 1, 2023 at 3:47 pm #1118897

    A small anecdote – a friend of my mother’s recently moved to assisted living. She’s closing in on 90. She has met lovely people and within a few months one of the men there said “I like you. I would like to spend more time with you.” so now they are dating.

    It can be that easy.

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    Jessy
    March 1, 2023 at 3:58 pm #1118898

    That is so sweet Leslie. I hope my guy will be flattered and embrace my vulnerability when I will make him understand I like him, even tough he’s not 90 yet!! I feel like I have to do something about my attraction for him. I know him for so long now, and I really want to know if there is some potential. I mean he has always been so warm towards me and when we see and talk I feel comfortable, a secure feeling. I might also be reading too much between the lines, but I sense there is something. If there’s nothing, at least I will move on.

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    March 1, 2023 at 4:34 pm #1118899

    Yes. Give it a go. Flirt a little and ask him to do something, or make it known you’re interested.

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    March 1, 2023 at 4:43 pm #1118901

    The feels like a Hallmark movie in the making. Good luck, Jessy!

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    March 1, 2023 at 7:20 pm #1118903

    Yes, good luck! And I do love updates on sites like this one so please let us know what happens. 🙂

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    Jessy
    April 16, 2023 at 4:08 pm #1119683

    Hi guys,
    I have posted a few weeks ago about a man I’m attracted to. Today we had another birthday party, of his grandson. The whole families were there, my son and my ex husband and his ex wife too. When I arrived to the party we hugged as usual, and he was sitting two chairs away from me. I tried to find courage to open a conversation with him, but I was completely blocked. Once he went out to take some fresh air, and I did find the courage to join him. I’m completely pissed off now because I didn’t do anything and he neither approached me. The only thing that happened was when he learnt I made the Birthday cake he told a picture of it. And when I went, he slowly hugged… like a bit too long to be casual… that was just a little update of the situation. Maybe if I meet him in another context, without families there, it will be easier…
    Thanks for reading…

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    Anonymousse
    April 16, 2023 at 7:28 pm #1119687

    Why on earth have you made no move on him in all this time? I would assume you’re not interested, I’d also assume he isn’t at this point. I could be wrong, but we’ll never know…because you won’t ask him out or anything. He’s a grown man, you’re a grown woman. If he’s not interested, he be flattered. There’s nothing to lose. Regrets are more about the things you don’t do, I think. The chances you don’t take. Why can’t you take a chance?

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    Jessy
    April 17, 2023 at 3:13 am #1119688

    I guess I needed some signs from his part. And as he didn’t come to talk with me yesterday, it blocked me. I have no trouble flirting with guys and ask them out when I sense some interest. Would he have come to speak to me yesterday, I would have felt more confident to try something.
    Also my ex husband was always close and I didn’t felt comfortable go to him to talk. I know my ex wouldn’t have appreciated as years ago he once said laughing, don’t you think he knows you are flirting. I guess he knows I kinda like him.
    I haven’t seen him since the first time I posted and now have no idea when we will meet again… too bad…

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