How can I make a move?
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This man isn’t interested. You gave HIM a sign by following him outside. He could then have started talking to you, in a way that would have looked friendly only if anyone came outside. He chose not to. This might indicate that, like your ex said, he knows you like him and doesn’t want to encourage it.
Even if there were mutual attraction, it’s clear that you two could never have a relationship. Time to move on and meet men outside the family circle. Snap out of it.
I didn’t follow him outside… he once did and came talk to me. But not last Sunday. Anyway you might be right, maybe he doesn’t want to encourage…
What was this then? “Once he went out to take some fresh air, and I did find the courage to join him.”
You need to move out of your ex husband’s shadow and social circle if you want to find love again.
I don’t think this guy is that interested, possibly because you seem to only see him with your ex husband in tow…although your first posts made it seem like you see him at a bar regularly.
You move at a snail’s pace. No man is going to know you’re interested if you wait for a sign from them first. And wait months in between.
Why wait for them? What if they’re waiting for you to show interest?
So given the back-and-forth on here after your first post — and the many, many reasons you had for why it’d be too awkward to approach him anywhere outside of a public Facebook status you hoped he’d somehow understand was an invitation — I’m not shocked by this update. I think it’s time to move on and stop reading into things like the length/speed of his hugs. Enjoy the crush, date other men.
