I mean, most of us clearly like writing our our thoughts and advice. Most of us got a lot out of therapy and/or enjoy reflecting on the lessons we’ve learned about love. Even if Robert isn’t doing much changing, he’s still engaging, and I’m still enjoying the heck out of it.
Hmmm, I don’t remember getting a electric shock collar that demands I give this thread my time. Clearly I’m not able to determine when I’ve had enough. Oh well, I guess I’ll go back to the kitchen, in my bare feet. Luckily I’m not pregnant… yet.
Here’s my two cents for Robert – let it go. Stop thinking that X skills or Y tasks leads to Z results, love doesn’t work that way. Love, or even companionship, is not something the universe owes you. Make peace with the idea that it may never happen, and focus on building a life that you like, and becoming the person you want to be. Then, if it happens, great, but if it doesn’t, you haven’t put your life, or even your holiday plans, on hold. If you enjoy dating, keep doing it, if not, then stop. If you enjoy it, then focus on enjoying the process and forget about the outcome.
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