May 26, 2022 at 12:00 pm #1109865AnnieParticipant
Hey guys. I need advice on how to make up with my friend. I’ve known her since high school and university and we got along pretty well. But when I got into a relationship my boyfriend started to complain about her and was always saying that she isn’t a good friend and that she doesn’t love me as a person because of some things she did which are a long story. It’s true that she was self-centered but I don’t see things as tragically as my boyfriend does. The thing is that he, too, made a mistake reading our conversations and ending up arguing with her which resulted in her insulting him on ethnic basis. So, he asked me to not speak to her anymore if I want to be with him. At the time I was mad at her and didn’t answer her calls but now I want to make things up and don’t know how to act. It’s pretty awkward because 6 months have passed. Should I text her or is it better if we talk in person?
May 26, 2022 at 12:27 pm #1109867CopaParticipant
- This topic was modified 1 month, 1 week ago by Annie.
Wow. So I’d personally not want either of these people in my life. I wouldn’t want a friend who insults people using slurs annnnd I wouldn’t want to be dating someone who reads my texts/gets into text fights with my friends/gives me ultimatums/tells me who I can be friends with.
Though that’s not what you’re asking. I guess if I were trying to patch things up with a friend I’d call or text to ask them if they’d like to meet me in person to talk. Conversations of a certain magnitude should happen face-to-face and I’d say this falls into that category.
May 26, 2022 at 2:49 pm #1109872anonymousseParticipant
- This reply was modified 1 month, 1 week ago by Copa.
Yeesh. What Copa said.
Maybe it’s better things happened this way so you can move on from her. She doesn’t sound that great.