Unfortunately, this has become a case of any advice or explanation given and is laid out in the simplest of terms being ignored and argued with. The total sum of help is being brushed aside, while cherry-picking certain of the words in the advice and is then construed as an attack. I don’t know what can be done to make her see that. Perhaps that’s why therapy and/or meds have not worked. From what I see on this thread (and I’m not an expert—but I think 69 pages of this back-and-forth is pretty telling), the refusal to be open to LISTENING to advice as a whole and instead taking individual words as an attack will never have a productive outcome.

Guys she does want help, she just wants it to be help that she wants to hear and have the ability to talk to people like shit no matter what GOD WHY ARE U ALL SO STUPID ITS NOT THAT HARD #anythingcanhappen

Ok, I’m just gonna open the cinnamon roll vodka….

Absolutely no one has talked shit about your family and friends. They could be part of the solution if they also change the patterns of interaction with you because you really need to stop lashing out at people. It’s really going to mess up your life as it continues. It becomes less and less acceptable as people age.