It’s not that I’m letting religion guide my judgement but i tend to hold Christ followers at a higher standard just because there supposed to be examples of Christ so when someone that is supposed to be an example of Christ does something out of pocket I kind of you know don’t believe it. But that’s a lesson i learned.

There is no mess, there is no disrespecting you. You are confused about what “this” is which it is nothing more than perhaps a long distance friendship. It is okay to be friends with someone you once had romantic feelings with btw. Talking to multiple girls with no commitment isn’t being a “player”. He isn’t exclusive to you and hasn’t been by what you have wrote in. He is a young adult who is doing what most young adults do, work and has an active social life. IF you think this friendship is one sided than guess what, you have all the control to end this by blocking this person out of your life. You don’t need to worry about his girlfriend or what he is doing. You don’t actually know what type of relationship he is in.
This guy lives out of state and for all you know this person could be catfishing you. You don’t know this person at all until you have met them in person. I hope you are practicing responsible and safe practices whilst making friends online.

Yes, you block him on all platforms. Don’t check up on him either.

Okay it’ll be difficult to not check up on him😭 but okay I will I thank you guys so much!

I don’t know why either. Probably because he still called me while having a girlfriend. And I don’t know i just feel curious.you are right i do need grow some self respect for myself.

You’re on the young side but this is a good lesson that there are a lot of people who are just not that great. They’re not evil. They’re not saints. And I’m sure you can find plenty of examples of people who hid behind their faith while committing terrible acts.

That said – if someone is being cruel, disrespectful, condescending, or rude – you don’t have to give them chance after chance after chance. Even if they are nice for a little bit – you decide what your boundary is and what is acceptable to you. It’s hard to walk away from someone who makes you feel loved, but you have to remember that this guy also made you feel like dirt.

Take some time for yourself – you’ll be OK.