October 27, 2020 at 12:24 pm #963704LudiqGuest
So long story short a girl who liked and had feelings for me 1 year and a half (she was my best friend girl) did an intrigue between me and some boys from 12 grade and told them i want to fight them (I actually told that i would fight if they attack me for no reason but she didn’t tell them the story like that) and one of the boys saw me at the toiled. He jokingly said i am a big “fighter” I asked him why is he telling this and he told me he heard that i said “I will beat him” and if say something like this “He will crash my head”. So the boys are 3 I am only 1 and they are stronger from me. The next time i saw him in the hall of the school he said “Everyone now became a fighter” like a joke with me and I didn’t respond. so I fell like they are going to beat me after school someday (if we end school at the same time because we don’t end at the same time everyday). What should I do? Should I talk with the boy who wants to fight me or should I ignore the situation?October 27, 2020 at 12:25 pm #963705LudiqGuest
I also feed very stressed and I wonder how to reduce my stress…October 27, 2020 at 1:01 pm #963708
It sounds like they’re joking. They are in grade 12, what grade are you?
I’m getting a vibe from this that they think it’s funny that a younger kid said he’d fight them, and are joking with you about it (or, one of them is). It doesn’t sound threatening to me. Do you have reason to think these three kids would wait after school and beat you up? Is that something that happens?October 27, 2020 at 1:11 pm #963712LudiqGuest
Because I live in Bulgaria and there everyone wants to show he is better in the society by showing he is “the man” the “the fighter” “the hooligan”.. im 11 grade and I am not sure if they are joking because they are actually mad. They could beat me because this one girl sets them against me and they probably wanna show they are “bigger man than me” and to not talk about them like thatOctober 27, 2020 at 1:13 pm #963713LudiqGuest
This doesn’t happens I am not a “kid” that is easily bullyed or threatened. They just think i talk how I would beat them all and are madOctober 27, 2020 at 1:22 pm #963716
Ok, and have you told them that you didn’t actually say you wanted to fight them? From the way you told it, they don’t sound angry, but what do I know? It might be enough just to deny that you want to fight them. I’m not sure that 3 guys really WANT to beat up one younger guy. Maybe give them a reason not to.
If you don’t think that will work, can you avoid leaving the building alone, and always be in a crowd?October 27, 2020 at 9:30 pm #963740ronGuest
You start by saying your best friend’s gf had feelings for you. Then she later told these guys that you wanted to fight them, twisting what you said to her. Makes me wonder if your friend (her bf) is upset with her feelings (past, current?) toward you and they discussed it, with either he or her deciding to do this do prove that she doesn’t really have feelings for you now and/or to drive you away. I’d take the hint and move on from these two. Also, Kate is right that it would be good if you somehow casually and honestly let these other guys know that you don’t want to fight them and don’t think you can beat them up. If they were serious, I think they would have fought you by now. They may be part of delivering the message to you, however.
Were you encouraging your best friend’s gf to have feelings for you, flirting with her, etc.October 28, 2020 at 4:49 am #963752
I think she was his best friend, not his friend’s girlfriend.