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November 24, 2021 at 6:55 am #1100393ErlNotEarlGuest
It’s quite absurd but that’s what happening. He’s currently in another part of the country and I’m currently with my parents. We agreed that once traveling is not so restricted he will come to pick me up cause I’ve been freeloading for almost 2 years now. I dunno what happened, all I’m asking is pick me up as a courtesy and a way to show my parents some respect but he vanished. No message nada. Just parking here for some opinions. Thank you.November 24, 2021 at 9:01 am #1100400LisforLeslieGuest
There is not enough information here as to why he’s in one place and you’re in another. The way you’ve framed this is as if you’re just sitting on your suitcase outside your parents house every day and when he doesn’t drive by and get you, you just sadly pull your suitcase into the house and do it again.
You have to talk to him. And if he refuses to talk to you, then get a divorce lawyer. Maybe he is cheating. Maybe he prefers being alone. Maybe he just doesn’t feel like being married anymore. Who the hell knows?November 24, 2021 at 12:40 pm #1100404BittergaymarkGuest
Very vague letter. But this marriage is over. Long over.November 24, 2021 at 3:19 pm #1100406FYIGuest
Why have you been freeloading for two years? You can get a job to support yourself, yes?November 24, 2021 at 9:29 pm #1100414BittergaymarkGuest
Forget showing your parents respect. He needs to be showing you respect.December 1, 2021 at 9:56 pm #1100588RedgirlGuest
I have so many questions! How did you end up in different parts of the country? Why does he have to pick you up? Can’t you get back home (I’m assuming you have a home with him somewhere?) yourself? Why are you freeloading off your parents instead of working and helping with costs? How long has it been since you’ve actually had a conversation with your husband? Have you asked him if he still wants to be with you?