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I'm in a state of emotional stress, and feel like a shitty friend & a loser.

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    Helen

    Let me also add that everyone has felt this way at some point in their life. When you’re a teenager you feel everything times a hundred. Life gets easier and more manageable when you’re more mature. Hang in there and make sure jealousy doesn’t turn you into an asshole

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    Hunter

    Thank you Helen. I’m keeping these feelings to myself so I don’t end up doing something stupid and getting into trouble.

    I’m not trying to portray her as an object or something, sorry if it came off that way. I just had sex on the brain because isn’t that what prom is for? Some seniors told me as a freshman that prom is an intentional misspelling of the word porn, and that like 99% of the people there were looking to come around for the utu bang bang (it’s a song by Kai’kena Scanlan, go look it up)
    Also, isn’t drinking alcohol 1,000 times more deadly than smoking weed? It just seems like an easy, happy solution that won’t hurt anyone. I will try and go for a run to town tomorrow (it’s just a little over 2 miles from my house), thanks for the s

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    Hunter

    *suggestion

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    Kate
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    Hunter, your attitude toward women is so problematic and it gets worse in each post. Get over yourself. Get a job this summer (NOT babysitting) working with girls your age and practice getting to know them as equal human beings. Like seriously work at McDonalds or something and get exposed to real life.

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    Kate
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    And yeah, at my prom my boyfriend and his friend were a little older and from a different school and they knew the guy waiting on our table in the hotel ballroom and bought weed from him. And then 8 of us drove to my parents’ beach house to stay overnight and after I got all the pins out of my updo I had the sex. And then later woke up and went downstairs where people were high AF walking around in snorkeling flippers. You’re not wrong.

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    Hunter

    Wow, that just makes me feel so much better.

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    Hunter

    What the hell’s wrong with me when it comes to girls?

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    Kate
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    Have you ever had a real job like at the grocery store or something where you work alongside women and get to know them as people and equals and friends?

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    Hunter

    No, I’ve never seen a need for a job as I’ve done well with my own independent hustles.
    For instance; I bake and sell $0.12 Toll House cookies for $0.50 a piece, and usually sell out every time. I bought $100 of chocolate bars in school from the judo team (like 90% of them from this girl BTW) for $2.50 a piece and sold them for $3.00 a piece after school in town. I got a big bag of Easter candy from Costco off-island and sold them in school for $0.25 each.
    So yeah, that’s why I’ve never really bothered with trying to get a job. I’ve always figured I’ll just go job hunting when I’m out of HS, and need a house to live in.
    I have been going to school and interacting with girls for all of my life, since way back when I was 3 years old in my first year of preschool. Does that count as something? I’ve said before on older posts that I was raised to treat girls like princesses and never ever lay my hands on them. So what is it about me and girls that’s so messed up? That is not a rhetorical question BTW.

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    ktfran
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    1. Women aren’t prizes to be won. 2. Women aren’t objects you can steal. 3. You can’t lure someone away from someone else. The only thing you’ll accomplish is receiving a restraining order.

    What’s wrong with you is you is how you view women. Get to know them as people. Not a sex toy.

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    Kate
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    “I was raised to treat girls like princesses”

    This. This is what’s messed up. And you’ve been told that hundreds of times on here and you’re not listening and you don’t take advice, so good luck doing what you’re doing that’s not working.

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    Hunter

    ktfran, I’ve known girls my whole life, I’ve hung out with girls my whole life, I’m friends with a lot of girls. I was raised to treat girls my damn best. I know I have a problem, I just don’t know my X-factor.

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