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I'm in a state of emotional stress, and feel like a shitty friend & a loser.

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    Hunter

    anonymousse, it sure as hell is working though, it’s making me feel a lot better. It was her choice to say no, and it’s not my problem. She had her chance with Hunter Da Hammah and blew it, plain and simple.

    I don’t know why I haven’t thought of it like that before. Also, aren’t shrinks just a rip off?

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    Hunter

    I think there’s order tickets coming in, they grab the ingredients, cook the food, prep it up, and serve it, either at the counter or send it with their waitstaff. Also, there’s a big sink where they wash and dry dishes. Obviously it takes a handful of people to run this operation.

    #841048 Reply

    The more you keep defending the attitude, the less it seems like “she blew it.”

    Anonymousse is right. When you can get to the point when you can realize that not wanting you romantically doesn’t make her a villain then you’ll have made progress.

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    Hunter

    Hey, I never said she was a villain, or anything like that. I just said if she don’t want it, that’s fine, and someone else can have all of this Hammah glory, her loss. I’m not trying to attack her.

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    anonymousse
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    Wasn’t the “Hammah glory” freshman year basketball?

    Your hustling of cookies and candy bars isn’t going to translate to a real job. You can’t put that on a resume.

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    Kate

    Right but you keep saying she “blew it” like she messed up or was dumb. She just wasn’t interested, it’s fine.

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    Hunter

    It was baseball, and people still call me HDH now.

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    Hunter

    Why can’t I put that on a resume exactly? That’s some entrepreneurship skills right there.

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    Kate

    Right, you know way better than we do, as functioning adults with paychecks.

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    Leah

    Hunter, why are you opposed to therapy? People go to therapy all the time. The ones who do end up going, provided they make an effort to change, are much better off than the ones who refuse to go

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    Hunter

    1) There’s no therapists around here, I’d have to go off island. Which means telling my mom (who’s kind of a gossip).
    2) If anyone found out about this more problems would come up, and I’d never hear the end of it.
    3) I don’t want people thinking I’m some kind of sick psychopath. That’s not how I want to see myself.

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    Kate

    You know, I can sympathize with the first two points, but don’t refer to people who see mental health professionals as “sick” or “psychopaths,” that is so wrong and inappropriate. People who treat their issues are taking care of themselves and improving their lives.

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