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I'm in a state of emotional stress, and feel like a shitty friend & a loser.

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    Hunter

    It’s alright, I’m pretty calm about it now, I guess I just needed a day or two to cool off.
    I am gonna try and smoke weed from an apple, either after school on Friday or this weekend, only because I’m way too damn curious not to give it a shot.

    But I gotta say, I never thought about dates that way. I’ve always seen dates as something you do to have a girl become your girlfriend, or at least have sex with her.

    Personally I’m not a fan of construction work. I don’t like being out in the hot sun with all the dust/debris, plus the heavy lifting.

    One more thing, that’s not how you spell Hammah. Hammer is how haoles say it, and they don’t mean the same thing. Hammah can mean one of 3 things; it can either mean cool or amazing (ex. this car is hammah, Hunter is one hammah), really good at something (ex. you know kai, he’s one hammah drag racer), or a real big dick (I heard he get one hammah).

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    Hazel

    pot smoked through an apple is like pot smoked any other way. Don’t expect too much, you aren’t going to get any different a high. Try to avoid tobacco however you choose to use.

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    Kate
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    Wow, you’ve got a reason why every type of honest paid work is tedious and not for you, don’t you?

    #841225 Reply

    I never thought about dates that way. I’ve always seen dates as something you do to have a girl become your girlfriend, or at least have sex with her.

    You’re treating it like a video game. Instead of getting to know people for the sake of getting to know them, you act as if it’s just the level you need to complete to get to the “boss” round.

    Here’s a little secret. Just press:
    up up down down left right left right B A start

    It will allow you to ignore all this boring dating stuff and it will take you right to the oral sex level!

    that’s not how you spell Hammah

    Well, at least it’s good you can stay focused enough to ignore all this mindless self-improvement chatter we’re throwing at you, and concentrate on what’s really important.

    I don’t like being out in the hot sun with all the dust/debris, plus the heavy lifting.

    With your ability to completely ignore the real problems, focus entirely on how things can personally benefit you, and your inability to even recognize that half the population has wants and needs if they run contrary to your own … forget this manual labor or burger flipping stuff, you’d be perfect for a career in politics.

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    LisforLeslie

    Oy vey. You got a lot of excuses why you can’t do stuff.

    You want to make a lot of money when you grow up? Become a plumber or an electrician. See about apprenticeships. Most of your work is inside as well. Sure, no one likes dealing with toilets but if you’re making anywhere between $30-150+ an hour, it’s not so bad.

    As for your nonsense with women… let me ask you this: For each of your “friends” in your group (guys and gals) could you name their favorite band, number of brothers and sisters, best dance move, favorite game (video), favorite game (not video), favorite cartoon? Have you been over their house? Talked to their parents?

    If you’ve done this with the guys but not the girls – they are not your friends. If you know the guys’ favorite band but not the girls… ASK THEM! Ask about their fucking interests! And if they say they like BTS or something you don’t – don’t put it down. Follow Dave Grohl’s example – to each his own. If they like a game you don’t like – ask, what do you like about it? What are you missing that they aren’t?

    Girls know if you only look at them like a piece of meat. They also know if your behavior indicates that their opinions and thoughts are valued or only a means to get in their pants. Also – guys that are regularly stoned are significantly less interesting to talk to. Just sayin’.

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    Kate

    Omg BTS. This is inappropriate but I saw them on SNL and they kind of made me feel things. I don’t even know what their deal is, but they’re adorable.

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    Hunter

    I said I didn’t like construction, that’s all. I never said I wouldn’t so anything else either. I think being a cashier, dishwasher, office/desk worker, or shelve stocking could be a pretty nice gig.

    I have been over to some of my friends houses, know what kind of games they like, activities they do, sports they’re into, shows and movies they watch, and I know a lot of their parents too. Not everybody I hang out with mind you, but a good bunch, of guys and girls.

    Also, the apple is so that people don’t know what I’m up to and it’ll be easier to put out the flame if a cop or someone I know will snitch comes around.

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    Kate

    Have you ever smoked any weed? There’s no flame. And no matter what you smoke it out of, it’s gonna smell like weed. An apple doesn’t hide anything.

    I mean, smoke if you want to, no one’s stopping you. It’s not a big deal. The apple thing is just weird to me, like why? I think it’s just kind of a novelty thing, or like a makeshift pipe if you don’t have one handy, not some clever way to be on the downlow.

    • This reply was modified 3 months ago by avatar Kate.
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    keyblade
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    LisforLeslie

    Dude you totally missed almost every point I made.

    You said you didn’t like working out in the sun -I gave you two jobs that you could apprentice now that are almost entirely indoors. And these jobs, over time, could put big money in your pocket.

    I gave you tips on how to engage the women in your life and you pretty much ignored that. OK. You’re friends with some of the women in your group. You’re still not getting dates so take some damn advice.

    And yeah, not even the dumbest cops in the world are fooled when you put a smoking apple to your mouth and instead of biting it, you inhale deeply.

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    Logan

    This boy sounds like a wasteman, going to be living at his momma’s and poppa’s house until they die from old age. Doesn’t even know how to treat a lady as a person, thinks they’re a sexual objects that he can steal away from someone that treats them like a human being. This boy sounds like a total loser, go smoke that stupid apple bong weed, you ain’t going to get any smarter.

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    Kate

    Let’s refrain from calling people names like loser etc. (see forum rules). The sentiment and advice are fine, but leave out the names.

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