- This topic has 18 replies, 6 voices, and was last updated 4 weeks, 1 day ago by Bittergaymark.
- November 4, 2019 at 10:38 pm #857660SeawitchGuest
Some STIs are “silent” when a woman has them – no noticeable symptoms until a few years later when she finds out she’s infertile.
So yes, get tested, the sooner the better.
As to what you do if you test positive, that’s easy. You take the medication that is prescribed and you dump thus fool who isn’t even smart enough to use a condom when he cheats,November 8, 2019 at 8:10 am #857997AllornoneGuest
No.November 8, 2019 at 9:39 am #858008JenniferGuest
He is telling me the truth? Does the truth even matter at this point? You’re considering marrying a person that cannot be faithful to you, possibly gave you a disease, cannot tell you the truth, and clearly doesn’t even seem very into you. I’ve been married for going on 8 years, and I can tell you that marriage can be incredibly difficult. And I am married to a really good man. I can’t imagine why you would throw good after bad and still give this guy a chance. I get that you love him. I get that this is hard. But, you need to cut your losses now. Do not further entangle yourself with this man. The temporary heartbreak is worth the long-term suffering.November 9, 2019 at 10:29 pm #858328GgGuest
The sex with you is meaningless that’s why he’s put your health at risk. Dump that cheating lying looser, you deserve real loveFebruary 11, 2020 at 6:33 pm #874986dirtorsoilGuest
What to do if it comes back positive? Get treated and start cancelling wedding stuff before you can’t get your money back.February 14, 2020 at 10:22 am #875221jilliebeanParticipant
Consider yourself lucky you found all this out before getting married. Breakups are easier than divorces. Please get tested asap and cut this dirtbag out of your life.March 6, 2020 at 10:51 am #877198BittergaymarkGuest
Yeah, this whole not going to tell you he has an STD is definitely a deal breaker. I would end the engagement. Everybody saying so here is 100% right.