Honestly I think it’s more likely he’s trying to put himself out there to get attention from women in general. Or, like you, he’s going out and having fun and wants to share it.

It’s highly recommended to remove your ex from social media and block them everywhere so that you can go absolutely no contact for at least 2 months after a breakup. Not because you hate each other, but so you can move on and not get pulled back into having them live rent-free in your head.

I’ll bite: The first time I got dumped, I 100% started posting more to social media. IDK that I’d have described it as trying to get my ex’s attention, but there was a part of me that wanted him to see that my life was still oh-so-fab without him. I have friends who have done similar. (I’m in my 30s now, so I did have social media in my late teens, but it’s different now than it was back in the day. So when I say I did stuff like this, what I really mean is that I changed my profile picture to one where I felt I looked hot and doing fun stuff because back then social media wasn’t as constant as it is now.) I don’t understand SnapChat, but I have a few friends who have used it, and have heard that people will pay close attention to snap scores or whatever as proof of increased activity/someone snap chatting (snapping? IDK the lingo) someone else.

So I don’t think you’re *crazy*, but I do think it’s a waste of emotional energy. There are lots of ways social media can drive you crazy post break-up if you let it. Right now, you’re letting it. I’ve learned over the years that it’s easiest to delete exes from social media. It can make moving on that much harder if you’re seeing what they’re up to every day. Your grieving period will be that much easier and your feelings for him will fade faster if you delete him. Believe me, I’ve learned the hard way.