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October 17, 2018 at 7:15 pm #805267KateGuest
She didn’t post under the name Janelle. JD is the artist formerly known as Janelle.October 17, 2018 at 7:18 pm #805268JDGuest
I never remembered my log in and just never tried to get it. ha. Ya I was Janelle now JD, although if we want to be technical JS now haha. Not 60, no boyfriend…my husband seems to not be into that idea. 🙂October 29, 2018 at 12:59 pm #806472JanelleGuest
Hi-Just an update on my situation. Had a discussion with him and all is fine. It is no longer an issue for me/us.October 29, 2018 at 1:14 pm #806473KateKeymaster
That’s good… Not trying to be snotty, truly, but based on my own experience, I don’t know how you could know that everything is solved and fine and move-in-ready after one conversation.October 29, 2018 at 2:55 pm #806483JanelleGuest
Well,because I know him and our relationship,I do. I am sure you and the others naysayers are doubtful and I get it. However,I am confident that we have worked things out fine. I am happy with my decision and with him. Happy Monday to you!October 29, 2018 at 3:23 pm #806485KateGuest
Realistically, only time will tell if changes in his behavior that he promises to make with the best intentions are going to “stick,” and if you can feel safe, secure, and unjudged with him even if his comments cease. You should be able to figure that out by continuing to spend time with him on weekends or whatever you’re doing now. I’d give it some time to be sure.October 29, 2018 at 3:35 pm #806486JanelleGuest
Thanks. Am certain all will be well-we have been through a lot together,serious health problems,distance dating,money issues,job stress etc. and we have become stronger,not pulled apart by all of that. And honestly if I felt I was being controlled or thought of as “less than”-I would walk.October 29, 2018 at 7:55 pm #806498ronGuest
Then, congratulations and I’m glad it all worked out for you.October 30, 2018 at 12:09 pm #806546JanelleGuest
Hi Ron-Thanks for that!November 1, 2018 at 6:44 am #806673CETGuest
I have an easy solution. Give yourself a one glass rule. That’s all you need. More is really too much alcohol at once to be healthy.November 1, 2018 at 1:59 pm #806697JanelleGuest
Thanks for the suggestion.November 1, 2018 at 5:07 pm #806700AngeGuest
Uhm that seems silly. If you can manage your behaviour (so it’s not anti social) have what you want.