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Is my boyfriend being too judgmental?

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    avatarKate
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    She didn’t post under the name Janelle. JD is the artist formerly known as Janelle.

    #805268 Reply
    avatarJD
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    I never remembered my log in and just never tried to get it. ha. Ya I was Janelle now JD, although if we want to be technical JS now haha. Not 60, no boyfriend…my husband seems to not be into that idea. 🙂

    #806472 Reply
    avatarJanelle
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    Hi-Just an update on my situation. Had a discussion with him and all is fine. It is no longer an issue for me/us.

    #806473 Reply
    avatarKate
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    That’s good… Not trying to be snotty, truly, but based on my own experience, I don’t know how you could know that everything is solved and fine and move-in-ready after one conversation.

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    avatarJanelle
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    Well,because I know him and our relationship,I do. I am sure you and the others naysayers are doubtful and I get it. However,I am confident that we have worked things out fine. I am happy with my decision and with him. Happy Monday to you!

    #806485 Reply
    avatarKate
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    Realistically, only time will tell if changes in his behavior that he promises to make with the best intentions are going to “stick,” and if you can feel safe, secure, and unjudged with him even if his comments cease. You should be able to figure that out by continuing to spend time with him on weekends or whatever you’re doing now. I’d give it some time to be sure.

    #806486 Reply
    avatarJanelle
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    Thanks. Am certain all will be well-we have been through a lot together,serious health problems,distance dating,money issues,job stress etc. and we have become stronger,not pulled apart by all of that. And honestly if I felt I was being controlled or thought of as “less than”-I would walk.

    #806498 Reply
    avatarron
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    Then, congratulations and I’m glad it all worked out for you.

    #806546 Reply
    avatarJanelle
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    Hi Ron-Thanks for that!

    #806673 Reply
    avatarCET
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    I have an easy solution. Give yourself a one glass rule. That’s all you need. More is really too much alcohol at once to be healthy.

    #806697 Reply
    avatarJanelle
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    Thanks for the suggestion.

    #806700 Reply
    avatarAnge
    Guest

    Uhm that seems silly. If you can manage your behaviour (so it’s not anti social) have what you want.

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