Right, the solution isn’t to monitor your own totally reasonable behavior to get a judgmental partner to back off. And two glasses of wine is absolutely fine. I have a very low alcohol tolerance and I can handle 2-3 glasses on a weekend. More than one on a weeknight messes with my sleep, but I’m not drunk off two.
Seriously, wtf kind of advice is that? She is a grown woman who can drink some wine in the comfort of her home if she wants to. Jeez. LW you keep saying you would walk ‘if’ but I see zero evidence of that. I think you’re walking straight into a very one-sided relationship. Good luck to you.