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January 19, 2021 at 3:15 pm #1009117Karebear1813Participant
I agree she should be blocking this chick and reporting her on social media if she feels she is stalking her but I also think it is important to document and have proof that someone is stalking you. LEA might not do shit but they could assist with an incident report or filing a restraining order (if they don’t have a family justice center) which doesn’t require criminals charge, just a piece of paper saying no contact or at risk of being jailed and fined. Im not saying LEA would need to drop the bigger, more important cases over a case like this but if LW truly feels she is being stalked then she needs to let the system guide her in protecting her self. LW used the word stalked. Stalking is not just someone annoying you just because it is over social media.
Also domestic violence doesn’t have to be physical or in person: Harassment and stalking are acts of DV.January 19, 2021 at 7:56 pm #1009127Rosary JamesGuest
She’s blocked and my account is locked so that she can’t see what I post. I don’t know why she’s jealous but that relationship has been over since 2018. I get that she has been led on but there is no actual bf/gf relationship. She’s just hurt and mad that we’re together and he’s been toying with her emotions. As far as stalking my social media it has to stop. She want me to publicly humiliate him and expose what’s been happening via social media. Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, nor any other social media platform defines my relationship and I think that’s what she’s more mad about that she has nothing to go off of after exposing his doing behind my back. I would like to thank you all for taking the time out in giving your opinions and thoughts on this situation. Thank you! I have it from here I know what to do. I just needed to vent to people that I don’t know because once you tell your family or friends what’s going on in your relationship you’ll never hear the end of it.January 19, 2021 at 8:13 pm #1009128KateKeymaster
You mean once you tell your friends and family your boyfriend has been sexting his ex and lying to you for two years they might try to talk some sense into you or something? Heavens!January 19, 2021 at 8:26 pm #1009129Rosary JamesGuest
You don’t know my family that’s why I put what I put. You shouldn’t jump to conclusions. My family would pursue to stay.January 19, 2021 at 8:31 pm #1009130KateKeymaster
Ok then do the smart thing and leave.January 19, 2021 at 10:01 pm #1009133anonymousseParticipant
I think you should tell your friends and leave him.January 19, 2021 at 11:14 pm #1009136BittergaymarkGuest
Yeah, you keep putting this ALL on the “crazy ex.” But truly — he is equally at fault. Yet you seem determined to buy all his b.s. 🤷♂️January 19, 2021 at 11:16 pm #1009137BittergaymarkGuest
He cheated on you. Not her.
He betrayed you. Not her.
He is to blame. Not her.January 20, 2021 at 8:31 am #1009147LisforLeslieGuest
Your family thinks it’s better to be in a crappy relationship than be alone? Well definitely don’t listen to that nonsense.January 20, 2021 at 4:02 pm #1009176Karebear1813Participant
I hope its breaking up with this guy!!