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My boyfriend is still in contact with his ex and he got caught!!

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    avatarKarebear1813
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    I agree she should be blocking this chick and reporting her on social media if she feels she is stalking her but I also think it is important to document and have proof that someone is stalking you. LEA might not do shit but they could assist with an incident report or filing a restraining order (if they don’t have a family justice center) which doesn’t require criminals charge, just a piece of paper saying no contact or at risk of being jailed and fined. Im not saying LEA would need to drop the bigger, more important cases over a case like this but if LW truly feels she is being stalked then she needs to let the system guide her in protecting her self. LW used the word stalked. Stalking is not just someone annoying you just because it is over social media.

    Also domestic violence doesn’t have to be physical or in person: Harassment and stalking are acts of DV.

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    avatarRosary James
    Guest

    She’s blocked and my account is locked so that she can’t see what I post. I don’t know why she’s jealous but that relationship has been over since 2018. I get that she has been led on but there is no actual bf/gf relationship. She’s just hurt and mad that we’re together and he’s been toying with her emotions. As far as stalking my social media it has to stop. She want me to publicly humiliate him and expose what’s been happening via social media. Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, nor any other social media platform defines my relationship and I think that’s what she’s more mad about that she has nothing to go off of after exposing his doing behind my back. I would like to thank you all for taking the time out in giving your opinions and thoughts on this situation. Thank you! I have it from here I know what to do. I just needed to vent to people that I don’t know because once you tell your family or friends what’s going on in your relationship you’ll never hear the end of it.

    #1009128 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    You mean once you tell your friends and family your boyfriend has been sexting his ex and lying to you for two years they might try to talk some sense into you or something? Heavens!

    #1009129 Reply
    avatarRosary James
    Guest

    You don’t know my family that’s why I put what I put. You shouldn’t jump to conclusions. My family would pursue to stay.

    #1009130 Reply
    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    Ok then do the smart thing and leave.

    #1009133 Reply
    avataranonymousse
    Participant

    I think you should tell your friends and leave him.

    #1009136 Reply
    avatarBittergaymark
    Guest

    Yeah, you keep putting this ALL on the “crazy ex.” But truly — he is equally at fault. Yet you seem determined to buy all his b.s. 🤷‍♂️

    #1009137 Reply
    avatarBittergaymark
    Guest

    He cheated on you. Not her.
    He betrayed you. Not her.
    He is to blame. Not her.

    #1009147 Reply
    avatarLisforLeslie
    Guest

    Your family thinks it’s better to be in a crappy relationship than be alone? Well definitely don’t listen to that nonsense.

    #1009176 Reply
    avatarKarebear1813
    Participant

    I hope its breaking up with this guy!!

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