I left my ex 6 months ago. He cheated on me, we got back together and then I realized I needed to heal from what he did and other things that happened. Since I broke up with him, he has asked to see me literally every week for 6 months. I was not ready…it was too emotionally difficult for me.

He didn’t seem to understand this. He would get upset and block me, ignore me and shut me out instead of being patient and understanding. He also dated others yet would tell me how much he loves me, etc. He honestly delayed my healing with the games and silent treatments. He is 37 and I would think a man this age would understand.

Anytime I would decide to see him, he would pull another silly stunt by shutting me out. The last time he asked me, I was finally ready but couldn’t see him the day he wanted. He wouldn’t hear it and didn’t take into account my schedule. This isn’t the first time. He told me I missed my chance and I wasn’t ready the other times so why now? He told me to walk in his shoes and understand why he felt the way he did. It really hurt me he said this because with what he put me through, and explaining it all…it didn’t make a difference. I have expressed my feelings to the point of exhaustion.

He put the blame on me and it’s really messed my head and emotions up. No matter what i said, did or no matter how good I was to him when I should have just told him to leave me alone it didn’t help. It had to be his way. I also never really received a genuine apology or remorse. My head is messed up and I need some advice or words of wisdom. Thank you.

• This topic was modified 6 months ago by cns82.
• This topic was modified 6 months ago by cns82.