“At brunch” you want us to believe you moved away from chester the molester and still have breakfast with the nice fellow? I knew that was a lie. Just be honest with us so we can give you real advice, which is your dad is a sicko pervert, his sons are, too and you need to get away from your creepy family and seek therapy ASAP.
If you’re lying about the job, find a job, it’s a job seekers markets, and more out ASAP.