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    Ann
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    There’s this guy that I’m already talking for almost a month now. We just having chats on tg, at first I told him atleast tell me his first name but he didn’t want to tell it cause he said I will easily will see his socials, cause his first name is unique. After days, we’re on discord cause I want to watch him play. So he shared his screen, he accidentally show his full name without him noticing cause he adjusting things in his pc. I didn’t tell him that right away. Then this day, I just call him in his 1st name then he’s obviously shocked how I knew about it. He replied wtf and full of questions mark then I told him how i get it by sending screenshot of us in dc. Then afterthat he immediately blocked me on tg and unfriend me on dc. I’m just confused whyyy? Is he hiding something that’s why he doesn’t want to know his info? I mean we already sea each other faces cause we exchanged it on chat. I just don’t know why he did that?

    #1120467 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    He’s definitely acting like someone who’s hiding something. Was he being flirty with you, and didn’t want you to know he had a girlfriend, or he didn’t want his girlfriend to know about you? That’s what would make sense in this situation.

    #1120468 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Or he could just be someone who talks to a lot of strangers online and wants to just keep his identity private for safety.

    #1120472 Reply
    Ann
    Guest

    Yes he’s flirty, we even had a deep conversation. We already did voice call and had watch movie together on dc. That’s why I’m really confused why he suddenly act that way.

    #1120476 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Because he has a girlfriend!

    #1120490 Reply
    Avatar photoDear Wendy
    Keymaster

    Um, so, hey, a red flag with a guy is when he doesn’t want you to know his first name and freaks out and blocks you when you discover it. He is not available to you; move on.

    #1120492 Reply
    Anonymousse
    Guest

    If someone won’t even tell you their name…why talk to them and watch movies on discord together or whatever? Did you give him your name?

    #1120493 Reply
    Avatar photoCopa
    Participant

    Now that you have his full name, have you Googled him? A quick search of this guy might reveal what it is that he’s hiding. Because yeah, he sounds shady.

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    #1120501 Reply
    Ann
    Guest

    I already knew his full name during those calls and dc things i just didn’t tell him right away.

    #1120503 Reply
    Anonymousse
    Guest

    Yes, but did you google him? Did you look at his socials?

    #1120507 Reply
    Avatar photoCopa
    Participant

    Right, a friend of a friend went on a handful of dates with a guy once and felt like something wasn’t adding up. She found him on FB. That’s how she learned he was married. He’d cropped his wife out of photos he was using on online dating sites. I realize this situation is not that and IDK what tg and dc are (it doesn’t sound like online dating, but your relationship was flirtatious notwithstanding), but shady people sometimes use the internet to hold themselves out as someone they are not.

    #1120513 Reply
    Ann
    Guest

    Yeah I already saw his socials, not really sure if he’s in a relationship. But I think maybe cause why would he react that way if he’s not.

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