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There’s this guy that I’m already talking for almost a month now. We just having chats on tg, at first I told him atleast tell me his first name but he didn’t want to tell it cause he said I will easily will see his socials, cause his first name is unique. After days, we’re on discord cause I want to watch him play. So he shared his screen, he accidentally show his full name without him noticing cause he adjusting things in his pc. I didn’t tell him that right away. Then this day, I just call him in his 1st name then he’s obviously shocked how I knew about it. He replied wtf and full of questions mark then I told him how i get it by sending screenshot of us in dc. Then afterthat he immediately blocked me on tg and unfriend me on dc. I’m just confused whyyy? Is he hiding something that’s why he doesn’t want to know his info? I mean we already sea each other faces cause we exchanged it on chat. I just don’t know why he did that?
He’s definitely acting like someone who’s hiding something. Was he being flirty with you, and didn’t want you to know he had a girlfriend, or he didn’t want his girlfriend to know about you? That’s what would make sense in this situation.
Or he could just be someone who talks to a lot of strangers online and wants to just keep his identity private for safety.AnnGuest
Yes he’s flirty, we even had a deep conversation. We already did voice call and had watch movie together on dc. That’s why I’m really confused why he suddenly act that way.
Because he has a girlfriend!Dear WendyKeymaster
Um, so, hey, a red flag with a guy is when he doesn’t want you to know his first name and freaks out and blocks you when you discover it. He is not available to you; move on.AnonymousseGuest
If someone won’t even tell you their name…why talk to them and watch movies on discord together or whatever? Did you give him your name?CopaParticipant
Now that you have his full name, have you Googled him? A quick search of this guy might reveal what it is that he’s hiding. Because yeah, he sounds shady.
- This reply was modified 6 days, 11 hours ago by Copa.
I already knew his full name during those calls and dc things i just didn’t tell him right away.AnonymousseGuest
Yes, but did you google him? Did you look at his socials?CopaParticipant
Right, a friend of a friend went on a handful of dates with a guy once and felt like something wasn’t adding up. She found him on FB. That’s how she learned he was married. He’d cropped his wife out of photos he was using on online dating sites. I realize this situation is not that and IDK what tg and dc are (it doesn’t sound like online dating, but your relationship was flirtatious notwithstanding), but shady people sometimes use the internet to hold themselves out as someone they are not.AnnGuest
Yeah I already saw his socials, not really sure if he’s in a relationship. But I think maybe cause why would he react that way if he’s not.