New Woman in My Life Causing Confusion
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I think theres one important fact I omitted. She told me that she went to vegas with her ex bf and now shes telling me theres guy Mark who likes her a lot and who she spends time with her and texts her a lot. She says she just met Mark. I asked for Mark’s full name and looked him up and he posted a video of him being in Las Vegas at the same time when she was with her ex. Do you think this is just coincedental or do you think there is more history to this Mark guy?
i met this girl and she was flirting with me intensely and trying to get me and get my attention. i am 28 and shes 28. i wasnt really that into her at first but we went on some dates. when i started going on dates with her, her tune changed and she began putting her bag in between of us and talking about other men. like she would show me pics of her going to las vegas with her ex bf and began texting another guy blatantly in front of me. she doesnt respond to my txts always and if i ask her why she didnt respond to me she says things “i dont respond when im in the company of good people” she mentions how she is also seeing another guy and how she comes over to her house and he makes her orange juice and how he has a lot of money. she follows me, unfollows me, and follows me again on social media. when she follows me, she watches every single one of my stories. i went to see her at work today at the taco truck she works at and joked with her that she should text me to come over every time shes working and to give me 50% discount she responded saying “you will never receive such a text from me even i dont get a 50% discount” how do u perceive her behavior toward me? what should i do about her?
She’s playing games. She likes the chase. She wants your attention but doesn’t actually want to date you. She probably does this with most of the men in her life.
If you distance yourself, I can almost guarantee she’ll start flirting and removing that bag. As soon as you show interest, she’ll put distance between you.
Do yourself a favor and walk away from this woman, she’s too immature.
Well, obviously she’s not that into you. You said you weren’t all that into her at first, so it shouldn’t be too hard to walk away.
So you weren’t really into this woman at first, but then you went on dates with her during which she put her bag between you, told you about all the other men she was dating, texted them right in front of you, and didn’t respond to your texts… and only after all of this did you go from disinterested to interested?? …wut? Why?
This woman does not care about you and does not want to date you. She likes messing with you and attention. You should walk away. Don’t visit her at the food truck. Let her play games with the wealthy man who makes her orange juice, her ex, and Mark (whose existence you should not read into because it does not matter what her history with her is).
If you’re looking to date or for a relationship, there are so many ways to meet people these days! Online dating and singles events would be better options than this.
It doesn’t matter what her history with Mark or anyone else is. This is not a mystery you need to solve. The only fact you need to know is that this woman treats you badly. She plays mind games and intentionally tries to make you jealous. Do you want that in a relationship? She is showing you what kind of person she is (not a very good one) and you should believe her and move on.
