pls help.. (friends in distress)

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  • April
    September 14, 2022 at 9:50 am #1115996

    Hi, first of all i’m french so sorry about the grammary stuff and all. ANYWAY. I just wanna know if i should apologies for hurting a “toxic”(?maybe) friend. The thing is i was in love with him but he wasn’t ofc and then he ask to be sexfriends??? I think he was playing with me bc he wanted attention a lot by not responding or not saying hi when we were with our friends… but anyway, he was a really good friend and i kinda miss him. it’s been 4mounth that we stop talking bc i stop all this mess. The thing is that recently, a friend of him and i was talking about him and he says that he was still hurt about me and all (me too’ a little)) sooo what should i do? btw i dont have any feelings for him so i think its fine if we restart being friends… THANK U for reading if you did bc its a bit long … Have a good day 🙂

    September 14, 2022 at 10:31 am #1115997

    I think that it would be best to move on. Invest your time and energy in new friends that you don’t have this history and baggage with.

    September 14, 2022 at 1:02 pm #1115999

    He gave you attention because you gave him attention, because you wanted to date him. He didn’t want to date you but he’d be fine having sex with you. That’s the extent of his friendship, what you can do for him, not what he can do for you.

    He’s sad because you’re not giving him the energy you used to (which is smart of you) and he doesn’t like that you’re getting over your crush on him.

    I don’t think he is a good friend. I think he is a user.

    September 14, 2022 at 1:44 pm #1116000

    I don’t think you should waste more time on him. There’s plenty of guys out there, and now is the time to explore them.

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