And again: he should do something to “keep you”? You have it wrong. WHy not: I can’t keep you as a partner. You suck just so grossly that this is over.
Slightly late to the game, but I wanted to raise the question of whether you might have become legally culpable in the whole underage porn viewing when you signed on to monitor his porn habit. I mean, you’ve watched at least some of it to know that it’s underaged stuff he’s seeking out.
You should get away from this guy…and then talk to someone about how you got wrapped in this mess and your legal and ethical obligations.