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Meecha05June 28, 2023 at 10:00 pm #1123499
Hello everyone. I really need your advice. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months, but I’ve had to deal with so much. First he has three children with someone who he claims was just a friend with benefits and that they have never been in a relationship at all. I felt if that was the cast…why would she be so upset or her family be upset if they new about the situation. Then, he has two separate Facebook accounts. One for family and the other just with childhood friends and other people that he grew up with. It’s a private page and he makes up a lot of excuses not to add me on there as well or at least update his relationship status.. and also never added me on his Instagram page either. I was only added to the one just for family, but he’s barely on there. Then he’s very secretive when talking to the mother of his children or even talking to his children. He calls to speak to his children when and calls them at a certain time when I am not around. Te me, I feel that he’s trying to live two separate lives. And whenever I feel a certain way and try to talk to him about how I feel, he shuts down on me or gets extremely upset and annoyed. Should I walk away..? I just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel so alone.
He IS trying to live 2 separate lives. It sounds like you know you are the side/secondary relationship and that he’s feeding you BS about the mother of his children. He has a family. He’s either married or in a serious relationship. Yes, you need to move on if you want more than this.AnonymousseJune 29, 2023 at 7:22 am #1123503
Yeah, you should move on. You’re unhappy and he’s not going to change.AnonymousseJune 29, 2023 at 7:24 am #1123505
The second he said she has only ever been a friends with benefits with a women he has three children with!!! you should’ve known better and been out the door.Meecha05June 29, 2023 at 7:38 am #1123509
Thanks everyone. I should have known better. He wasn’t honest with me and I deserve so much better. Even though his parents know me and he has made it known with other people online on a certain page…..still he was very dishonest about the situation with the mother of his children. He deserves exactly what he has now. I’m moving on to better. Thanks again♥️