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AprilOctober 5, 2022 at 11:24 am #1116359
So as you can see in the title my ex sex friend and i want to restart a basic friendship but dont know how to move on… do you have any advice? and btw its been like 2 mounths since we stop things so idk how to come back, i already spoke to him but it was weird as hell so idk what to do :/ i just wanna specify we also had a good chemistry before the sexfriends thing and i like him like one of my bestfriend..
Thanks for reading have a good day 🙂MeltsOctober 6, 2022 at 4:02 pm #1116382
If you are both willing to be “friends” I would recommend you guys be both spend more time out spend time on the casual things you both like.
You could meet for a drink or a nice food.
Spend more time doing activities that you both like. You could talk and find out each others personel likes and dislikes. I can understand totally it’s quite hard to just step to this part after being only sex partner but if you are willing to build up a friendship, I think you guys both should know how to do it as adults.
But I think the most important part is to be open talking about feelings and knowing your needs and requirements.
if it’s a friend at this point go for it.
if you have feelings for him, still be open and maybe you guys would make a good couple after finding out if you are for each other or notMeltsOctober 6, 2022 at 4:04 pm #1116383
But I would highly recommend you to make sure if it’s going to be friendship or if he is catfishing you for sex.
And if it’s bothering you to be only sex friends, know your limits and say no.
And explain you want a friend or a boyfriend pleaseAnonymousseOctober 6, 2022 at 6:18 pm #1116384
You probably shouldn’t be friends if the connection is “sex friend,” that’s how you refer to them even now, and you don’t know how to move on from it. Don’t try to be friends, just move on.
Or, never ever let it get sexual again and just be friends. Can you do that? Be honest with yourself about that. Friends are great but I’ve never been friends with anyone I wanted to screw for very long. You cannot be a true friend to someone you’re trying to sweetly, subtly or unsubtly charm into bed.FyodorOctober 6, 2022 at 6:31 pm #1116385
How did things end? Why did they end? He might not want a regular friendship with you afterwards-it’s one of the risks of this kind of thing.