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She seems like upset with me, but she was trying to talk to my brother.

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    phone324234234
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    So there is this girl (21/f) who use to say mean things to me (24/m) on facebook and in person. I mean it got annoying afterwards and I kinda got offended. She said things like ‘YOU HAVE NO TASTE IN MUSIC, YOUR MUSIC SUCKS, YOU ARE NOT A BUSINESSMAN.’ She asked me what girl I had a crush on in middle school, I told her, and she told my brother. I asked her why she was like that and she was ‘idk i guess I like to annoy you.’ I got pissed and I cursed her out. And she blocked me.

    Years later she unblocked me and I reblocked her. But idk, one time I saw her, and I said that ‘I tried to get to know this girl but it didn’t work out’ and she just laughed out loud.

    Years later, I tried adding her as a friend on fb and messaging her saying I wanted to talk, she didn’t allow me to friend her and didn’t respond to me. So I assumed she didn’t care and I didn’t care. I was just trying to ‘fix’ things but it seems she wasn’t ready to.

    Next time I saw her, We didn’t talk, but she did sit at the same table as me with other friends we have in common. She tried talking to my brother and sister in law, I mean she seemed to get along with them. She later wanted to take a group picture and I sat at another table, I didn’t want to be in her picture. I think alter she looked at me and looked upset?

    The next day, when she was about to sit at a table, I saw there too and she didn’t sit, she moved to another table. I mean I enjoyed myself, I didn’t care about her or give her attention. But I did notice towards the end she looked at me, glanced and looked upset.

    I mean I just am wondering what she wants me to do? Not saying I will nor do I say I care, I am just wondering why she is behaving like this? Does she just hate my guts?

    I mean for the most part people like me, I’m a respectable person in society and I think I’m doing great things. Just curious about why she is like this because she seems like a horrible horrbile person. I feel like I did the right thing ignoring her ass.

    #1110391 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    She used to like you. I don’t know if she still does. Sounds like maybe.

    #1110392 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    You said maybe she still likes me? I’m just wondering, do you think she still does? What does she think of me?

    #1110393 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    She came and sat with you and wanted to take a group picture. I don’t know specifically what she thinks of you, but I think she had a crush in the past and didn’t know how to act.

    #1110394 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    So what do I do now?

    #1110395 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Well, what do you want to happen?

    #1110396 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    Maybe i like her and i was just upset before, I thoguht she was messing with e and toying me….
    What do you think about her recent actions?
    I want a relationship with her.

    #1110397 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    You want a relationship with someone you think is horrible, really? I would recommend trying to find opportunities to actually talk to her and get to know her better.

    #1110398 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    um ok. but i am just wondering what you think she thinks of me.

    #1110400 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    I don’t know, there’s no way for me to tell. Maybe like, weird but intriguing? I am not even 100% sure that she liked you or still does. But her behavior sounds like someone trying to get your attention and not knowing how to act.

    #1110402 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    What do you mean weird but like intriguing?

    Also why do you think she sounds like shes trying to get my attention and not knowing how to act.

    #1110403 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    I’ve said all I can say on the topic, honestly.

    There was this kid in middle school I found weird but intriguing. I used to sit behind him in French class and like punch him in the arm with my mood ring. IYKYK.

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