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Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

She seems like upset with me, but she was trying to talk to my brother.

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  • #1110404 Reply
    phone324234234
    Participant

    Thank you 🙂

    #1110432 Reply
    PassingBy
    Guest

    I’m really curious why you’re trying to reconnect with someone who treats you badly.

    So what if she secretly likes you? (which we have no way of knowing). She treats you badly, so so spend as little time with her as possible.

    #1110433 Reply
    anonymousse
    Participant

    You don’t have to be friends with everyone.

    #1110434 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    I have to say, you’re coming across completely unhinged, between reposting this 5 times, repeatedly asking what we think she thinks of you without us having any familiarity with either of you, and claiming to want a relationship with someone you don’t know and don’t even like. Get a grip and just be open to talking to get to find out if you even like her at all.

    #1110442 Reply
    Kate
    Keymaster

    Don’t post this again.

    #1110548 Reply
    WhyDoWeExist?
    Guest

    It seems to me that both of you don’t know how to approach this… Maybe you both need to stop trying to figure out what the other one is thinking and just have an open and frank discussion. The worst thing that could happen is that she tells you that you were wrong in which case nothing was lost, or she tells you that she is in fact interested in you in which case you at the very least could get a date out of it.

    Either way the BS game you are torturing yourself with ends.

    #1110550 Reply
    bloodymediocrity
    Participant

    If someone treats you shitty and they aren’t immediate family, any time spent figuring out why is ultimately a waste of time. Maybe she liked you at one point in time and was really immature. Maybe she’s just kind of a bitch. Maybe she has a legitimate reason for not liking you but won’t be direct about it.

    The reason doesn’t matter, she’s proven she’s not going to be a positive force in your life. Don’t spend any more time or energy on this. If she wants to be viewed in a more positive light by you, that’s on her.

    You’re 24 years old. It’s time to break out of the “what does this mean??” line of thinking.

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