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- June 23, 2020 at 3:55 pm #890541Gloria1Guest
I’m unsure what to do in this situation. I have been with my partner for about 9 months. He had always been in contact with a girl on a friendship basis, they went on one date but apparently she just wanted to be friends I was told by him. They message quite often but over the last few months things seemed to be getting flirty and he told me he likes her. I told him “ I want you to stop messaging her and block her number” he did this but I found out recently he’s been trying to message her on another platform, say he thinks of her a lot and isn’t fully happy in the relationship with me. What do I do?June 23, 2020 at 5:56 pm #890547EssieParticipant
If you have self-respect, you dump him. Today. You should have done that the minute he told you he likes her. Definitely once you knew he wasn’t happy in your relationship.
As you found out, you can’t stop your partner from liking someone else by forbidding him to talk to her.June 23, 2020 at 6:46 pm #890553anonymousseParticipant
Nope, you should move on.June 23, 2020 at 8:23 pm #890560FYIGuest
He texted someone else that “he thinks of her a lot and isn’t fully happy in the relationship with me” — is that right?
Dump him. Don’t wait two more seconds.June 23, 2020 at 9:19 pm #890567OracleGuest
There are a lot of guys out there. There are ones that will actually like you. This one does not. Dump him.