Should I leave him?

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  • Carla
    June 13, 2023 at 11:24 am #1123101

    Hey girls I recently started talking to my ex and he had a whole girlfriend after me so we didn’t speak for like 2 years but we’re talking and now I have felt super guilty and he thinks I haven’t slept with anyone but I have since I was single. I came clean and told him and now I feel everything is ruined because he calls me names and tells me that I lost my morals and that I’m a slut and a hoe. He wants to know every time I has sex with someone and wants to go into details and asks me about it. I’m still single and I slept with someone a month ago and my ex is upset about that I know we’ve been talking but I told him how I felt that I didn’t have feelings. I have also slept with one of his old friends and I told him about that which is why he’s calling me mean names he says I’m disgusting and that he’ll never have sex with me the same. He says I’m a disappointment and that he left me with only one body. I now have slept with 5 people and he has slept with 6 so I don’t know how to feel.

    June 13, 2023 at 11:59 am #1123104

    Definitely leave him. You have no reason to feel guilty, or to submit to his questioning and insults. You were apart for two years. He had a girlfriend during that time. Have you quizzed him on his sexual activity with her and others? Of course not, because that’s not what a normal person does. He’s a loser. Please lose him.

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    June 13, 2023 at 12:05 pm #1123105

    Ew. Men who get worked up about body count are insecure losers. Don’t waste any more time on this guy. He’s not entitled to any of these details and it’s SO inappropriate for him to shame you for having a romantic life while you were single.

    June 13, 2023 at 1:09 pm #1123106

    Ew – he’s totally gross. Major ick. Leave him. Find an adult who isn’t afraid of an adult woman.

    June 13, 2023 at 4:00 pm #1123107

    Agreed, he’s a super disgusting loser- and by the way if what you’ve done is so bad, what does that make him? He’s a hypocrite and really, really so insecure.

    June 13, 2023 at 5:12 pm #1123108

    Some things are nobody’s business. Is he your Ob-Gyn? This guy is a creep. You need to run and block. And have nothing to do with his friends. They are going to be just as jecky. You can do better. You need to talk with someone as to why you put up with his nonsense.

    Miss MJ
    June 13, 2023 at 6:02 pm #1123109

    Ugh. Cut all contact and block him. Hypocritical, misogynistic, jealous, controlling, verbally and emotionally abusive. He’s a walking red flag. You don’t need this guy in your life. Guaranteed.

    June 13, 2023 at 7:55 pm #1123113

    Agree with all the rest…run! Cut all contact, he sounds terrible. Also, think about why you two broke up…am sure you will realize he was not good for you.

    June 14, 2023 at 11:09 am #1123120


    June 14, 2023 at 5:58 pm #1123129

    The fact that your immediate response to him calling you “a slut and a hoe” is anything other the immediately ditching him forever is concerning.

    June 22, 2023 at 2:34 pm #1123419

    Cut this loser out of your life and find someone who respects you. It’s never okay for someone to call you names and insult you. And it’s hypocritical for him to call you a slut when he has slept with more people than you (Not that it matters. Your sex life when you are not dating him is none of his business.)

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