- August 14, 2019 at 9:22 am #850257TaraMonsterParticipant
Yeah I agree with everyone else. I think you’d be safe sending her one more message in a few days telling her you had a nice time and asking her out on a date, but I wouldn’t expect much of it.
@Kate, I think this LW is in the UK. **Everybody** there uses WhatsApp. Even if she didn’t give him her contact info (and I think you have to have someone’s # to find them on there?) she’s definitely seen the message. Source: I have a zillion friends in the UK + use WhatApp daily.August 14, 2019 at 10:21 am #850260anonymousseMember
I mean there could be any number of reasons. Maybe she’s in a relationship, or she woke up the next day and change do her mind. Or literally a zillion other things. Don’t take it personally.August 14, 2019 at 12:38 pm #850271LoganGuest
Sounds like she might be bipolar or didn’t get the D and moved on.August 14, 2019 at 12:38 pm #850272LoganGuest
Sounds like she might be bipolar or didn’t get the D and moved on.August 15, 2019 at 7:09 am #850302SecretLad93Guest
Thought I’d drop everyone an update, she messaged me back this morning, not going to lie, I was smiling when I seen it slightly.
I didn’t send her a second text as suggested, hopefully I get to take her for a drink again, thanks everyone.August 15, 2019 at 6:30 pm #850369AngeGuest
So is the date arranged? Hope so!August 17, 2019 at 4:50 pm #850469August 18, 2019 at 11:38 am #850502SecretLad93Guest
So we met up again and spent the night together, nice girl but she puts on a front and has a guard up, enjoying just Getting to know her a bit more with no expectation at the moment, nice change from always being with the lads on a night out.August 18, 2019 at 11:57 am #850505KateKeymaster
Yeah, I would keep your expectations low since she lets your messages sit and seems to just want a hookup.