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Should I text/message her again or count my loss.

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    TaraMonster
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    Yeah I agree with everyone else. I think you’d be safe sending her one more message in a few days telling her you had a nice time and asking her out on a date, but I wouldn’t expect much of it.

    @kate, I think this LW is in the UK. **Everybody** there uses WhatsApp. Even if she didn’t give him her contact info (and I think you have to have someone’s # to find them on there?) she’s definitely seen the message. Source: I have a zillion friends in the UK + use WhatApp daily.

    #850260 Reply

    I mean there could be any number of reasons. Maybe she’s in a relationship, or she woke up the next day and change do her mind. Or literally a zillion other things. Don’t take it personally.

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    Logan

    Sounds like she might be bipolar or didn’t get the D and moved on.

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    Logan

    Sounds like she might be bipolar or didn’t get the D and moved on.

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    SecretLad93

    Thought I’d drop everyone an update, she messaged me back this morning, not going to lie, I was smiling when I seen it slightly.

    I didn’t send her a second text as suggested, hopefully I get to take her for a drink again, thanks everyone.

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    Ange

    So is the date arranged? Hope so!

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    @logan where did you get the bipolar diagnosis from?

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    SecretLad93

    So we met up again and spent the night together, nice girl but she puts on a front and has a guard up, enjoying just Getting to know her a bit more with no expectation at the moment, nice change from always being with the lads on a night out.

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    Kate
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    Yeah, I would keep your expectations low since she lets your messages sit and seems to just want a hookup.

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