One day my husband told me he wasn’t happy anymore and wanted a divorce. He left the kids and I. I was beyond depressed I couldn’t cope. He told me to go out and date, I did but it was still in love with him. My husband pushed me to file for divorce which I did. I ended up sleeping with another man because I thought it would help me heal. My husband went on a trip with another woman and posted it for everyone to see. While I was privately doing my own thing. He introduced this woman to our children after a month. He told me shortly after that he was lost without me and wanted to get back together. I was hesitant for awhile until eventually he convinced me to reconcile. I told him of the intimacy I had shared with another man. He told me he couldn’t be intimate with the other woman but we could work though it. He would go through fits telling me I didn’t love him I never cared about him. For months and on two occasions he got violent. I finally told him we had enough. Then he came clean that he had been intimate as well after lying to me for months and making me feel guilty. He now wants to make things work but I fear there’s too much damage now. I’m not sure what to do. He’s out of the house. But still convincing me to reconsider.