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Should this hurt?

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    avatarKate
    Keymaster

    Look, if everything else were perfect, and he’s just someone whose policy has always been to not post any indication of his relationships on social media, then fine, this would not be an issue. You probably wouldn’t be writing in.

    But I’m guessing neither of these things is the case. What else is wrong? What did he post in the past about girlfriends?

    And I agree w everyone else that “I’ve been hurt in the past” means “I’m gonna be behaving badly.”

    #964978 Reply
    avatarCopa
    Participant

    I am someone who used to overshare on social media (FB came out when I was a teenager, sooo…). As I got older, I stopped sharing as much about my personal life. My whole life doesn’t need to be out there, it really isn’t anyone else’s business. I’ll share boring things, like food pics and my dog. I share relationship photos much less. It means nothing. People know we’re together. We’ve been together over two years, and his FB still says he’s single.

    I feel like there has to be about more than just social media. He’s introduced you to his friends and family, so people know you’re together. Is he doing other things that make you feel like he doesn’t value you or is trying to hide you or diminish your relationship?

    #965024 Reply
    avatarBittergaymark
    Guest

    Eh, I simply don’t see this as a big deal either. Unless you’re Madonna and it’s fucking 1985 few on the planet want constant updates about your relationship. Nobody gives a rip. Christ! Everybody these days thinks they’re a Kartrashian.

    Aim higher.

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