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    ravi mehta
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    i’ve been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, and i’ve known she’s had anger issues. she says things she doesnt mean when she’s angry. we were having this argument a few days ago and she got angry and said she stopped loving me and we weren’t meant to be, and then broke up. after a few hours she texted me again apologising and saying how she messed up and how she’ll do anything to regain that trust and how much she loves me. i don’t know if i should stay or leave

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    Kate
    Keymaster

    Leave. If you’re having such drama at 3 months, it will never work. It’s not supposed to be like this.

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    Helen
    Guest

    Leave. You shouldn’t be fighting at 3 months in. It should still be nothing but love and rainbows

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    Oracle
    Guest

    Leave. This is someone you want to have as little to do with as possible.

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    Fyodor
    Guest

    Get out get out get out. Things will only get worse.The longer you stay the harder it will be to extract yourself. Stay broken up and block her texts and emails. Move on now.

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    Fyodor
    Guest

    The behavior you’re describing of flipping out in you and then pleading for forgiveness is very common among emotionally abusive people. Please do noy let yourself be dragged in further.

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    Anonymousse
    Guest

    Leave. Because all you have to look forward is false promises to change and more and more escalation of abuse. And she’ll say it’s not her fault, you knew she’s like this.

    She needs to seek help for her anger issues, not take them out on you or others.

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    LisforLeslie
    Guest

    Yup – knowing how to fight constructively is a key to a good relationship. Going nuclear all the time isn’t normal or mature. You deserve better.

    Also – because it clearly needs to be said.

    IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO FIX HER.
    LOVE DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT BEING TREATED LIKE CRAP.

    If she loved you, she wouldn’t actually treat you like crap. It’s really that easy.

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