- This topic has 7 replies, 1 voice, and was last updated 3 months ago by LisforLeslie.
June 26, 2022 at 2:10 am #1110667ravi mehtaGuest
i’ve been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now, and i’ve known she’s had anger issues. she says things she doesnt mean when she’s angry. we were having this argument a few days ago and she got angry and said she stopped loving me and we weren’t meant to be, and then broke up. after a few hours she texted me again apologising and saying how she messed up and how she’ll do anything to regain that trust and how much she loves me. i don’t know if i should stay or leaveJune 26, 2022 at 5:26 am #1110668KateKeymaster
Leave. If you’re having such drama at 3 months, it will never work. It’s not supposed to be like this.June 26, 2022 at 6:28 am #1110669HelenGuest
Leave. You shouldn’t be fighting at 3 months in. It should still be nothing but love and rainbowsJune 26, 2022 at 7:32 am #1110670OracleGuest
Leave. This is someone you want to have as little to do with as possible.June 26, 2022 at 8:58 am #1110671FyodorGuest
Get out get out get out. Things will only get worse.The longer you stay the harder it will be to extract yourself. Stay broken up and block her texts and emails. Move on now.June 26, 2022 at 9:00 am #1110672FyodorGuest
The behavior you’re describing of flipping out in you and then pleading for forgiveness is very common among emotionally abusive people. Please do noy let yourself be dragged in further.June 26, 2022 at 10:06 am #1110673AnonymousseGuest
Leave. Because all you have to look forward is false promises to change and more and more escalation of abuse. And she’ll say it’s not her fault, you knew she’s like this.
She needs to seek help for her anger issues, not take them out on you or others.June 27, 2022 at 9:11 am #1110685LisforLeslieGuest
Yup – knowing how to fight constructively is a key to a good relationship. Going nuclear all the time isn’t normal or mature. You deserve better.
Also – because it clearly needs to be said.
IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO FIX HER.
LOVE DOESN’T MEAN YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT BEING TREATED LIKE CRAP.
If she loved you, she wouldn’t actually treat you like crap. It’s really that easy.