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November 25, 2019 at 8:19 pm #861417ChloeGuest
Honestly, fuck you guys. I did not ask for relationship advice and if you’re going to be rude about something I was struggling with, than don’t post on my post. It was a simple question. I see the rest of my family every day, except for my sister that is in Arizona.
I have been with him for years now, get your facts straight. Supposed to be helpful but most of you are haters.
Yeah I saw flights are being cancelled, I’ll watch out. Those of you who actually helped me figure out what to do, thank you. Those other ones fuck you guys!
🙂 happy holidaysNovember 27, 2019 at 12:16 pm #861663LadyPantsGuest
Your decision to use an “excuse” for which there was a foreseeable solution is where this went wrong for you. I think we’ve all felt pressured to give excuses instead of stating the truth so this is relatable, but you have to know when it’s going to work and when you’re setting yourself up. Your present situation is an example of why this is not always productive. In the future you’ll be happier if you buck up and honestly explain that you have other plans. Offer your regrets if you have them. This way you’re not presenting people who love you with a non-problem they feel they have to solve for you. The truth may disappoint people and that may be unpleasant for you, but it’s a critical element of maturity. It’s also a really effective way of getting what you actually want.November 27, 2019 at 1:41 pm #861679PDX816Guest
You are a child and your little rant proved it. Grow up little girl. You came asking for validation, not advise. When no one patted you on the back, said poor you and gave you the validation you need you throw a tantrum.November 27, 2019 at 1:45 pm #861680
Fuck you too, Chloe. Happy holidays.November 27, 2019 at 1:47 pm #861681AllornoneGuest
Kate’s response might be my all-time favorite response ever.November 27, 2019 at 1:49 pm #861682
I’m Vacation Kate rn.November 27, 2019 at 5:11 pm #861712NicoleGuest
Having not seen another post from this person, I don’t know the full content. How long have you been with him and what is going in with the jail thing? I only gathered that info from people’s comments that seem to know more.Like someone else said, you weren’t honest about the reason you did not want to go, and a ticket was lovingly bought for you. Both good and bad, because she did not tell you first. ND I was asking how long boyfriend has been in the picture, because maybe he just wants to be with you for once on a holiday. Why isn’t he invited?November 27, 2019 at 6:23 pm #861720November 28, 2019 at 2:37 am #861760LadyPantsGuest
The website: “Dear Wendy — A relationship Advice Site”
LW: “Honestly, fuck you guys. I did not ask for relationship advice”
Okedoke. I second Kate on the Fuck you too.November 28, 2019 at 8:26 am #861811anonymousseParticipant
Ha ha ha.November 28, 2019 at 9:43 am #861821CETGuest
I never spend Thanksgiving with family. We all live in different states…the kids only get 3 days off school. It’s just too expensive to buy 4 plane tickets for such a short visit. It’s OK to sometimes have Thanksgiving at home and not see family. But YOU have to make a decision and tell everyone ahead of time. It kind of sounds like you are indecisive and let everyone else make plans for you. Make a decision. What do YOU want to do. Not your sister. Not your parents. Not your boyfriend. YOU. Then tell everyone what you decided.
PS – My girlfriend fell in love with a guy who went to prison and told everyone he was innocent. He was manipulating her and she believed what she wanted to believe. It ended very badly. Be careful. Someone who goes to prison is someone who does not make good choices in life.