Well yes, you can’t fix stupid, especially when people are proud of their stupidity (looking at you Hermain Cain Award recipients).

But I think this is desperation, naivete, delusion, inexperience, manipulation, a whole host of things… but I don’t think it’s straight to the bone stupidity.

Have you managed to video chat with him to at least see if he’s the person you’re talking to? because if not, it’s really dangerous to move to a different country with a stranger