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    Well yes, you can’t fix stupid, especially when people are proud of their stupidity (looking at you Hermain Cain Award recipients).

    But I think this is desperation, naivete, delusion, inexperience, manipulation, a whole host of things… but I don’t think it’s straight to the bone stupidity.

    #1098723 Reply

    I think a lot of people don’t come to advice forums because they’ve made good decisions, but driving the point home with cruelty is unnecessary. It’s mean and often counterproductive. Sometimes people need really blunt advice, but there’s never a reason to call someone stupid. No one’s life has even been improved by hearing that they are stupid.

    #1099269 Reply

    Have you managed to video chat with him to at least see if he’s the person you’re talking to? because if not, it’s really dangerous to move to a different country with a stranger

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