I’d not ask him to meet in person. What’s left to rehash here? And in any case, closure is something you give yourself. I say this as someone who has done the “closure talk” thing, though after an LTR, and I did not suddenly feel amazing about everything.

If you have a chance run-in, you can say hello. I’ve had a couple encounters like that and they definitely took me by surprise (which I imagine was obvious in the moment), but it was never a huge deal at the end of the day.

ETA: Do you have anything like Meet Up where you are? I think your energy would be better spent meeting new people with shared interests than revisiting a short-lived relationship.

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