Used for sex???
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I’d not ask him to meet in person. What’s left to rehash here? And in any case, closure is something you give yourself. I say this as someone who has done the “closure talk” thing, though after an LTR, and I did not suddenly feel amazing about everything.
If you have a chance run-in, you can say hello. I’ve had a couple encounters like that and they definitely took me by surprise (which I imagine was obvious in the moment), but it was never a huge deal at the end of the day.
ETA: Do you have anything like Meet Up where you are? I think your energy would be better spent meeting new people with shared interests than revisiting a short-lived relationship.
The best way to minimize the awkwardness is to treat him the way you’d like to be treated next time you see him.
There WILL be awkwardness at first, but that’s fine. I don’t think there’s anything to be gained by reaching out to meet in person.Don’t ask to meet up. You two already discussed it and broke it off. Meeting now would be awkward.
If you see him in public, just say hi and do whatever feels best in the moment, including running away or flirting, you do you.
Although to be clear, I don’t think you sound like you should be flirting with that guy, if he doesn’t want anything more and you do. That’s just going to end even harder.
