Okay, I don’t care. I don’t want or care enough to argue with you about the details of your life. I just think if that’s what you came here to do, go argue with your amazing dad instead.
Why are you here, why are you posting? What do you want from us? For us to say your dad is really cool and made good choices? I think you know that isn’t true.
You have been writing in for what, 2 years now, three? And you haven’t moved even one step closer to resolving your issues. It’s time to get off the merry-go-round and get it together.
You are in your 20s now. You need to be figuring out how to support yourself with a steady job or multiple streams of legal income. Asking questions like you’re doing in this forum is only useful if it’s helping you understand how NOT to be.