How could matching his friend be a big deal? So a stranger you matched with in the same app he used happened to know him?? If that bothers him I cannot imagine what wouldn’t. Bullet dodged. Don’t respond to him at all, ever.
So he texted me this morning ahain and i asking how was my night so i asked return. And he says he was studying and his frat had a party so he joined later telling me honestly right away. Maybe he just really meant to be tired and had no itent to hide about it? Regardless he was being disrespectful and i shouldnt be talkin to him anymore right
He is really not passionate about you. “I fell asleep”, my god.
Plus he can feel that you are super keen and investigating every thing he says. He can wrap you around his finger. Don’t be so available to someone so loose. By the way, Germans are normal. This is not a cultural thing. Just a loss a time and energy. Recenter on yourself, go out and try to meet people in real life.
Hi-I agree with Kate on this. Although,on the off chance that he was being sincere,you imo blew him off,were not straight up with your answers and intentions. Altogether each of you making things too complicated. Also,the “exclusive” from the get-go is a red flag-too much,too soon. I am sure if you had slept with him,that would be the last you heard from him,unless he booty called when it was convenient for him.