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    October 19, 2022 at 12:36 pm #1116552

    So I work in a children’s home I have worked here for 3 years though I love the children I was bullied for 3 years where a person even got away with making racial slur towards me but I got disciplined for spreading toxicity…

    I got married in February and submitted my spousal visa in August hence can’t leave me job. I applied for a few just to get a view and insight into other options. When my manager found this out she called me in on me annual leave and informed me that she knows that I applied for a casual post and am looking she then proceeds to inform me that I am getting transferred to another home and this is only 2 weeks before.

    Again I can’t leave me job as my husbands spousal visa will get refused. I am upset but other than that I don’t know how i should be feeling and how I will get through this time . My husband case will hopefully be over by Februaury 2023.

    October 23, 2022 at 9:48 pm #1116584

    I want to support you in this difficult situation. You should remind yourself every day why you are staying here and that this will all be over soon. Let your husband give you a lot of support, because you suffer for his sake. I believe that you can get out of there and you will be happy sooner than you think.

    October 26, 2022 at 3:14 am #1116627

    Thank you so much
    This makes me feel so much better.

    I am trying to put a brave face on and trying to avoid management as this will tell them that I don’t care about moving and I am fine with it.

    I have realised that a lot of people are not what they seem and have seen a different side to colleagues I had thought were my friends which is a little upsetting. However I can’t do anything about it. I will pull up my socks and hope this time goes fast.

    Thank you again for supporting me.


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