It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Concerned Husband” whose wife was taking her anger out on him and their kids after being diagnosed with MS. “I have spoken to my wife about this and she says she is sorry and will try to relax and not yell at us,” he wrote, “but that only lasts a day or so. It’s like she’s angry at the world that she has MS, but the thing is she is only mean to us. She goes with friends and her sisters and treats all of them great and then comes home and is distant towards the kids and me. Honestly, she is pushing us away, and I find it more fun to do things when it’s just me with the kids.” His update below:
Thank you for the update. I’m so glad to hear things have improved and hope this is just the beginning of an upward trajectory for your wife and your family and you all learn how best to manage the MS and its effects on your wife as well as on the rest of you.
If you’re someone I’ve given advice to in the past, I’d love to hear from you, too. Email me at email@example.com with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now.
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