It’s time again for “Dear Wendy Updates,” a feature where people I’ve given advice to in the past let us know whether they followed the advice and how they’re doing now. Today we hear from “Taking It Slow” who, after six months of dating the same guy, was feeling frustrated that she still hadn’t met anyone from his life. He was ending a marriage and told her he needed time. She wrote: “How long will I be in this weird, don’t know if he is fully in, situation? Do you think the signs he is giving me now are enough to be patient and see where this goes?” Her update below.
Are you sure he’s actually ending his marriage and not just straying from it? At any rate, you gave this an honest go and it’s time to MOA (which means no more sex, no more talking to him, blocking him on social media, etc., etc. — Boy, Bye!).
If you’re someone I’ve given advice to in the past, I’d love to hear from you, too. Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org with a link to the original post, and let me know whether you followed the advice and how you’re doing now.
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