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You exchanged Instagram’s instead of phone numbers? Is that what happens now a days? When I get a DM on the IG, I usually read it, but never want to respond right away, and almost always forgot to actually reply.
Perfectly Healthy, and the way it probably should be for the kids, but not all divorced couples can do that. It’s probably not healthy to think that’s a bad thing.
I do find it odd that he randomly found another pair in your kids stroller though. Maybe they are his, and when you found the ones in the bag, and ran and got his back up pair, and said he found them in the stroller? Why was he randomly going to the stroller after you found them.
I actually put a guys shirt in my wife’s swim bag just this Sunday. We were at out daughters swim lessons, and I was packing up our stuff because class was over and they needed to head into the locker room. Well apparently either somebody’s shirt fell onto our stuff, or somebody put it on the chair we were using and I just packed it right up with everything else. I then got a text from my wife in the locker room, that she found some gross guys shirt in her swim bag. Oops.
Why would you need male friends because of this? Why does the gender matter, if you need somebody to talk to or hangout with?
Honestly I wish I knew exactly what you were saying to him. I torn on the whole texting her back thing and not you, because there are times if my wife is annoying me, I’m not going to text her back, but that isn’t going to stop me from texting my other friends. But also if I don’t have service for 2 days, unless somebody else needs something urgent, my wife is the first person I’m texting because I miss her.
How long has he been planning this trip with this girl? Has he not had time to tell you, or has he know for a couple of weeks? Was this maybe just an idea, and they are trying to get all of the information together to see if it’s even feasible?
There are so many variables here, and it’s hard to tell on what scale his asshattery is right now. Your snooping is making this so much worse, because people go through a process of how they do things, and you aren’t giving him a chance to go through that process, and you have no way of asking him, because you don’t trust him, and are snooping on him.
Why are you even contemplating going or getting a gift? If you think the friendship is over, and don’t want to mend fences, just don’t go, and keep the current work relationship you have with her.
Honestly, to me it sounds like he has a crush on this girl, and if this guy truly never had a female friend, then he’s probably really enjoying the attention he’s getting from her. He might have absolutely no inclination to cheat on you physically, but he probably really likes how freely they talk, and doesn’t want you to ruin that by showing up at their “Work” drinks. Also lets get real it’s not all work talk, it never is.
My wife would never stop me from meeting up with her work friends, and the same with me, heck we always invited each other before we had kids and somebody had to stay home and man the fort. I would let her decide if she wanted to come out and be subjected to 80% work talk/gossip.
You look like you are in love with him, because you literally look for a sign in every single thing he does, and watch his every move. You act like the whole family is in on it, and either trying to hook you up with him, or trying to save you from him, because god forbid two cousins sit and talk about good their childhood was growing up with really nice grandparents… and you say this “I was on pins and needles and checking the door every minute waiting for him to arrive…He made an expressive entrant, arriving as the last person to the party.”
This post is almost 2 years old.
He was never your true love, or you wouldn’t have treated him the way you did. Most likely you’re having problems in your relationship, or just dreaming about the one that got away. It’s not real, your just looking for something better, and you think this guys it, but he’s not. He probably hates you now.
You sounds very much in love with your cousin. You also sound like your trying to call him creepy to cover it up. Stop being in love with your cousin that’s gross.February 5, 2020 at 11:33 am in reply to: “Should I Give Him Another Chance After he Ghosted Me?” #874500
Did you go around NY looking to see if you could randomly run into him on the streets? You’ve gone through a whole lot of trouble to find this guy, and if somebody was creating tinder profiles in my hometown, just in the hopes of matching with one of my friends so they could contact me, or have their friends contact me, I would probably make up a whole lot of stories to, just so they don’t get mad at me and skin me alive.
Don’t get me wrong this dude is a dick, and just wants naked pictures of you.