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Dear Wendy
Dear Wendy

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  • Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Hmmm ya depending on how long this FWB goes, idk if I would ever introduce him to my friends… is that normal? Or just personal preference? I would be going to see him mostly since he has his own place, and more private then my room at home. My friends know about him, but can’t see me bringing him into my friend activities. And not sure what I would do if he ever invited me out to hang with his friends…But I think I am getting ahead of myself!

    I agree, enjoying the single life, especially now that I have carefree sex on the docket πŸ˜‰

    Also reviewing haunted houses? Saweet! I have always wanted to check out a haunted house πŸ˜›

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Ya the whole innocent thing makes me feel weird sometimes. But whatever, I think guys get off with that thinking, the sweet innocent girl (another thing…I am 24, a WOMAN) and gonna make her dirty.

    Buuuut I did my second date last night. And it went really well! 6’2 with a gorgeous red beard. And we grabbed a hot drink and walked along the waterfront for a bit before settling down on a secluded bench. We talked mostly about where we were from, school all that basic stuff. Then when alone we talked about our expectations, what we were okay with tonight (we sexted a bunch proceeding the meetup). And went from there! Snuck into a dark part of the waterfront bushed and made out, great kisser, finally! And then went to his car and drove to a dark parking lot and had some safe fun πŸ˜‰

    I am pretty sure he is the guy I am gonna do my FWB with. I felt so comfortable and at ease with him, and we have a similar view on sex and what we like. And he is so easy to talk to. He also likes cuddling, so bonus! He also felt the same, I am the first person he has met up with through OkCupid. And he liked that he got a good feeling from and about me while we texted. So it seems we are both very interested and on the same page with a monogamous FWB situation! Success!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    @Lovely haha oh men! I also look pretty young for my age, 24, so another comment is ‘you look so young!’ so the young and innocent comments usually proceed one another. But yes, I guess I should go along! Could be worse!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Had one of two dates this week yesterday. He lives in my town, is a student and also works part time. I had mentioned in an earlier post that he and I clicked through texting and the banter was really fun. We met up at a local pub and had a couple drinks. Conversation flowed pretty well, and he seemed interested. Unfortunately he kept commenting on how ‘innocent’ I look. I have had this before with other guys, and it is just annoying. But anyways. After drinks he suggested we go back to his place. I drove us there and proceeded to have some fun! Wasn’t too bad, but still indecisive on whether I will stick with him or not. He was pretty adamant on getting me off and focusing on me, he then told me he probably wouldn’t be able to perform too well cause he had drunk a bit before seeing me because he was nervous. So yay? Thought that was an interesting move to do. But regardless we managed, and I had some fun with a new guy!

    I have another date tonight with a guy, we are going for a walk along the lake, and through out conversations he seems very kinky! So I am looking forward to see how it goes!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    No you are right, I was thinking about it this morning and kind of wondering the same. It wasn’t so much pressure, just teasing and flirting and I eventually reciprocated.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Ya sometimes your gut instinct isn’t what you want to hear. But it is for the best! Never give up!

    I ended up talking with some guy on OKcupid while drinking with a friend the other night. She egged me on, since she is doing the same thing right now. We ended up chatting more yesterday via text and really clicked! Lots of banter, which I love, and we have similar tastes physically. So we are meeting for drinks tonight πŸ™‚ Hoping it goes well!

    The Police Man though texted me last night too. We chatted lightly for a bit, and he just wanted to clarify what I was looking for. It all seemed mute considering I turned him down. Then later he texted me while he was on duty and wanted to chat cause he was bored. And he diverted the conversation to deeper sexual stuff. I tried ignoring and making jokes, but he was persistent and continued. And eventually I got sucked in, he really got me hook line and sinker, and I guess played off the bit of chemistry we had when we met the other day, which was definitely present. So I finally said I would be willing to meet again and see where it goes. I am not quite regretting this choice, as there is definitely a side of me very curious to how he and I would mix. He is older, more experienced, and seems very confident with what he wants and can do. And my curiosity got the better of me.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    So glad ya’ll feel me! It is such a buzz kill. But this has happened to me be before. And in the end it really affects the chemistry. So I am probably going to end it. It is also strictly casual, FWB situation. So not like I am looking to date seriously, plenty of guys out there who may work out better and have interest in a FWB situation.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    So did my tea date with Police Man. Went okay. Looks the same as the pics he had online, which was a relief! Very friendly and easy to talk to. lots of knowledge on lots of things. We ended up going for a small walk in a trail near us, and at one point I veered us off the path along the water and he took the opportunity to kiss me. Not the greatest kisser. Too wet and kind of a sucking kiss. So….not sure now. Great guy, but after the kiss, and then the 10 year age difference, I am debating. Told him I would let him know if we are to see each other again, as I was honest and said I need to think about it. It seems like such a petty thing! But the I after seeing him I am also very self conscious about the age difference and I am re thinking.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    So I am jumping on the bandwagon people! I am not dating seriously, but rather casual, like FWB kind of stuff. But I signed up for OKcupid and after making the poor decision to list my interest as casual sex and short term dating, I sorted through the ridiculous amount of messages, and finally hit the jackpot with a guy! He is a bit older than me *cough* 10 years *cough* Is a police officer in the region, loves the outdoors (has a conservation pass, which basically sold me haha) and is very fit. So let the games begin!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    @hfantods I am from outside of Toronto (20-30 min away) and when I was doing online dating I would always suggest a halfway point because honestly I wasn’t interested in making a huge long trip, especially on a first date! It would be totally fine to suggest something halfway for the two of you. I am sure if you have access to the GO train, he does too and can meet up somewhere.

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Ahh boo πŸ™ Sorry it ended up being a dud of a date πŸ™ Maybe just ask him what he is interested in and depending on the answer make some evasive action on the dating!

    Avatar photoCleopatra_30
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    Also, I am gonna be right on this thread after work tonight to see how your date went @veritek33 ! You can do a really sly move and put some ice cream on your lips, and say ‘hey wanna try my ice cream?’ and pucker up! Hahah okay that probably wont work, buuuuut if you go for a walk with your ice cream you can find a nice quiet place and make a move, or him, whatever works πŸ˜›

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