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    December 8, 2023 at 2:24 pm #1127012

    I remember kids getting iPod nanos for Christmas. That was definitely a status thing. I don’t think I actually wanted one. But I would have been happy with an mp3 player. Nowadays I can see how convenient Bluetooth headphones are. I still wouldn’t want to get AirPods for a teenager.

    I can see why a 12 yo would want skin products for acne. Drunk Elephant doesn’t really do that AFAIK.

    I am also kind of proud of my past self for buying random kitchen stuff on sale like a trivet or Swedish cloths which I can give on short notice.

    @copa omg that is so awesome re pottery! I am giving a chip and dip bowl to my dad if it survives glazing. I feel like my work isn’t really gift-able yet. I have so many vessels at home haha.

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    December 7, 2023 at 4:11 pm #1126995

    Oops, yes I meant recipient “thanked” in person.

    My siblings and I still buy for each other. It is a bit hard buying for my brother. We also used to split our parents’ gift.

    Last year my husband and I got “each other” a cooking class date.

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    December 7, 2023 at 12:49 pm #1126989

    I’d also be concerned with any hearing damage using AirPods that young. Also why does a 12 yo need Drunk Elephant??

    I’m curious what your siblings/niblings’ parents think of the list, MissMJ. Did they know? I know my mom wouldn’t be happy with me sending a $200 wish list to my aunt haha.

    I remember asking for a calendar from my secret Santa aunt/uncle. I’ve also liked nice pens, note paper, a duffel bag, and lip gloss selection.

    Other threadjack questions:
    – do you expect a thank you card if you gave a gift in person and the recipient asked them then?
    – do you get gifts for siblings?
    – what kind of gifts do you get for your SO?

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    December 5, 2023 at 2:57 pm #1126957

    I think $100 cash is very generous. Maaaaybe to give them the benefit of the doubt, they sent the same list to their parents? Have you chatted with your siblings? $200 for several niblings adds up!

    I think when I was younger my aunts and uncles drew our names and our price range was maybe $30? I have about 10 cousins for maybe 5 aunts/uncles.

    My niblings are 5 and 2. I spend maybe $50 on them.

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    November 11, 2023 at 6:37 pm #1126598

    I agree it’s weird that your mom is being so persistent. I also agree they she needn’t be included in “the” birthday dinner? But it’s a whole birthday weekend? Does your mom just want to be included for a little bit, but not the whole weekend? I’m reading between the lines here.

    Your bf wants do just dinners wish his fam but he’s ok with your parents “hanging out”? I think that’s more awkward though I guess they could do a short visit for afternoon tea or something. I also think 45 min away is local enough depending on your area.

    Maybe you could broach it as mentioned above like your parents as locals want to invite his parents for lunch? All depending on their schedule.

    I totally get it’s awkward with in laws. I’m not clear if your bf even brought it up with his parents. I understand maybe he doesn’t want to do a dinner with everyone but as he suggested something short so people can start to know each other. So bring it up again and follow up on the “hanging out”. And then tell your mom what your decision is.

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    September 13, 2023 at 11:25 am #1125406

    I do suffer from comparison, so I empathize. I’ll also say that it is very possible her life is “perfect”. However ultimately that has no relevance to you. You have to unfollow and also block her on Instagram. I also know it’s easy to just unblock someone. But you can think, “I’ve come so far. I can’t unblock her now.”

    Comparison is the thief of joy. Why are you letting her occupy your brain space when she isn’t thinking about you? You can’t compare someone’s best to your worst.

    And lastly try to cultivate gratitude.

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    September 11, 2023 at 10:19 am #1125369

    I’m sorry you’re facing these memories, Anon.

    I knew that Mila was really young when she started the show. I didn’t know all the background interviews.

    One “good” entertainment news lately is Joe Jonas’ PR spin has received a lot of backlash for “leaking” stories about how Sophie Turner is a bad mom and likes to party and Joe parading his kids at a lunch.

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    September 6, 2023 at 11:36 am #1125323

    I’m glad you’re starting to feel better TheLadyE. Maybe this will be good material for stand up in a few years time? My brother is a respirologist (I think equivalent of the US pulmonlogist) who specializes in lung transplants. Seems like it is life changing for certain patients. I’m sure you’re getting solid information.

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    August 29, 2023 at 12:31 pm #1125104

    That looks so good ktfran! We have a ton of cherry tomatoes. Maybe we can roughly chop them instead of grating.

    Everything sounds so good! Loooove grilled peaches. I like the idea of entertaining but get “stressed” about timing dishes. But I like the make your own stuff and stuff you do before like cheese boards

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    August 28, 2023 at 9:30 am #1125084

    I had a nice weekend. Had a friend, her husband and 18 month old over. Hadn’t seen her since our wedding last year. Also first time meeting her child. I made a zucchini tomato quiche. It was fairly good, maybe had too much zucchini haha. What is everyone’s go to dish for entertaining or potlucks?

    My husband is away for work. I think I used the grill to make a complete meal for the first time. Pork tenderloin and zucchini. I’m so pleased how it turned out! It’s like a really large sheet tray.

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    August 21, 2023 at 2:36 pm #1124998

    I suggested an STI test if that could give you peace of mind, if anything went further, although that’s not conclusive.

    I am glad you have a therapist. They should be able to help.

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    August 21, 2023 at 9:41 am #1124989

    I’m sorry you’re experiencing anxiety about this situation. If it might make you feel better, do you think taking an STI test might help? Also your “friends” were not good friends. Glad you are not friends with them anymore.

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