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  • September 9, 2015 at 9:12 am #380785

    Ooh, Kate, I do agree with that too… Chemistry is a very important part of a relationship and it’s better to find out sooner rather than later if all that is going on.

    The guy spent a couple days with his parents over the three day weekend. He showed his mom a pic of me. She thinks I’m super cute and she asked when he was bringing me around. So… there’s that.

    September 9, 2015 at 8:55 am #380778

    Ver…. I’m going to let you know next time I’m in Quincy. We should happen to run into one another. Just saying.

    Also, H… my middle sis was 28 or so the first time she had sex. I’m not exactly sure when she started kissing. I’m a big advocate of doing what you’re comfortable with and when and not rushing things.

    September 7, 2015 at 6:14 pm #380495

    Hfan, I agree with others in that you should check in with yourself and see how you’re truly feeling about this guy. It does feel great to be liked, but to move into an exclusive relationship without even kissing seems to be moving a bit fast. I suggest proceeding at a pace that feels comfortable to you in checking in with yourself every couple of days. And also, when you’re out, flirt a little more so the kiss happens. Arm touching, leaning in, smiling… They’re all great indicators that you want to kiss. Amp that up and hopefully he’ll take the lead.

    In other news, I think I might have a “boyfriend” on my hands. He wants to tell his main boss about us, who is someone I happen to work closely with. I’m still a little (ok, a lot) cautious, but he definitely likes me and I for sure like him. Anyway, that’s what’s new on my end.

    August 30, 2015 at 12:25 pm #379402

    I echo others in that too many or too flattering of compliments too soon makes me a bit uncomfortable. I’m glad the third date went well though hfan!!!! The breakfast date was a fantastic idea.

    Ver, how was your second date?

    I had dinner plans with girlfriends Friday night, then I went over to the guy’s apartment and didn’t leave until this morning. In fact, we only left once to get coffee and go to the grocery store. Great weekend!!!! He also mentioned a day trip our coworker Lisa and their crew are doing. He mentioned me going, and I said that I would need an invite. He said he was… And I was like wait, can we do that? This is work people. And he said it was fine…. So that made me feel pretty good, that he’s ok with coworkers knowing about us now.

    August 28, 2015 at 11:15 am #373966

    Ooh. Yay Veritek!!!

    I don’t know Loo. In the past, I’ve never had the conversation. It always just kind of happened and bam, we’re together. With this buy, it’s too soon for me to broach the subject. But we do spend a lot of time together and text daily. I’m positive he likes me a lot. And even without any kind of exclusive talk, I’m certain that he’s not dating or even looking to date anyone else. Of course, I guess I can’t be 100% sure… but it’s a pretty safe bet.

    This is actually the first time in a long time I’m not constantly freaking out or wondering if he’s actually into me. He lets me know he is, and he’s definitely still wooing me. All good signs, I think.

    August 26, 2015 at 10:48 am #373607

    That’s so cute Veritek!!! I’m sorry about your parents and hope they are doing better, or will be soon.

    Soo…. another awesome date last night. We stayed at my place after. I gave him a toothbrush to use, so now he has one at my place. Is that too soon? I felt a little nervous about it.

    August 24, 2015 at 10:43 am #373228

    Instead of Netflix, the guy wants to have “a champagne in bed” morning. I’ve never done that, so I’m game….

    The couple Saturday’s we’ve gone out and spent the night together, we’ve both had things going on the next morning, so it hasn’t happened yet.

    August 24, 2015 at 9:08 am #373211

    Hahaha. Well played.

    August 24, 2015 at 8:59 am #373209

    Umm what?!?

    I had a good date with the guy. And we had sex. But I definitely didn’t lose my virginity. Next date: Tuesday night.

    August 18, 2015 at 5:33 pm #372491

    Oh my god, that’s a great date veritek!

    I was just asked to an event from the guy for September 10th. Yay to advance dates!

    I can’t go… but still.

    August 18, 2015 at 1:07 pm #372418

    Ver – the next date is tomorrow. We’ve done pretty good at seeing each other once to twice a week. Last week was the first that didn’t happen because of busy schedules. I’m not inviting him to the friend meet because 1. we all might cancel and 2. we have a date tomorrow.

    The 29th is great, Ver, considering you live a couple hours apart!

    Def do not change plans hfan. Maybe try to plan something easier during the week and do the cooking/baking thing a few weeks from now. That’s what I would do in your situation anyway.

    Also, I can’t stress enough how important it is to keep your own social life… i don’t think you should not makes plans in the hopes of some guy asking you out. It just makes you miserable.

    August 18, 2015 at 9:25 am #372371

    It’s really good, Ver! Date tomorrow night. He mentioned last week while we were texting that he wanted to spend more time together. He’s really, really sweet. We haven’t been on a date since last Monday, but that’s because of schedules/being out of town.

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